How to keep a Z after married.

Z Runner · 03-05-2018, 06:16 PM

I hear marriage contracts are in style this days
Z could be listed there tadaaa!!!

Rusty · 03-05-2018, 09:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Z Runner

I hear marriage contracts are in style this days
Z could be listed there tadaaa!!!

List all of my hobbies as off-limits. And she can't tell me on how much I can spend. The problem is the flip side. Her list of things that is off-limits to me.

Dirk McGurck · 03-06-2018, 07:32 AM

My Z ownership lasted longer than my marriage.

GuiLLoZ · 03-06-2018, 08:44 AM

Well before i met my wife i had already the Z she loved it and when the question arrived if i needed to sell my Z she said no that's our get away, then i went and bought her an ex35 infinity and i still have my toy even thou she didn't asked for it lol, when i take my kid to school i have the car seat on the Z no problem and she loves it too!!, so not selling any time soon thank God!

B&W_Evader · 03-06-2018, 08:55 AM

Had a pumped out 69 Vette before the Z that hardly ever got driven. Sold it and bought the Z a couple of weeks later. Daily driver now so, while it's not as bad-a$$, It gets driven probably 50x more often. It did cost me an Acura RDX and a garage spot before the bitching stopped. One freaking expensive Z.

b15 · 03-06-2018, 12:59 PM

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Originally Posted by B&W_Evader

Had a pumped out 69 Vette before the Z that hardly ever got driven. Sold it and bought the Z a couple of weeks later. Daily driver now so, while it's not as bad-a$$, It gets driven probably 50x more often. It did cost me an Acura RDX and a garage spot before the bitching stopped. One freaking expensive Z.

When I met my wife she was driving a POS Ford Contour that was falling apart and never had the luxury of garage parking. Silly me offered up a spot when she moved in. Fast forward to today, we're married and she must have a garage spot, all the driving aids/nannies that I hate and cooled seats in her car. My fault though, I created an animal.

On the flip side though, she leaves me alone when it comes to my car hobby

JLarson · 03-06-2018, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by b15

When I met my wife she was driving a POS Ford Contour that was falling apart and never had the luxury of garage parking. Silly me offered up a spot when she moved in. Fast forward to today, we're married and she must have a garage spot, all the driving aids/nannies that I hate and cooled seats in her car. My fault though, I created an animal.

On the flip side though, she leaves me alone when it comes to my car hobby

Similar problem for me! When we were first married, I let my wife DD my 350z and she really enjoyed most aspects of it. The end result was that she wanted something close to the power and handling of the 350z, but with more modern amenities and AWD, all easy enough to do... except she's also extremely frugal! So we spent a couple months looking before she settled on a 2013 g37x.

She's pretty great though, really good about me modding my car, and was ridiculously excited when I bought her a motordyne exhaust for her birthday (she also helped install it).

SouthArk370Z · 03-06-2018, 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by JLarson

... (she also helped install it).

b15 · 03-06-2018, 02:52 PM

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Originally Posted by JLarson

Similar problem for me! When we were first married, I let my wife DD my 350z and she really enjoyed most aspects of it. The end result was that she wanted something close to the power and handling of the 350z, but with more modern amenities and AWD, all easy enough to do... except she's also extremely frugal! So we spent a couple months looking before she settled on a 2013 g37x.

She's pretty great though, really good about me modding my car, and was ridiculously excited when I bought her a motordyne exhaust for her birthday (she also helped install it).

Nice!!

markesc · 03-08-2018, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Dirk McGurck

My Z ownership lasted longer than my marriage.

This is a huge topic: 70% of divorces are initiated by women, YET, women put pressure on men to marry. It just screams asset forfeiture all over it.

SouthArk370Z · 03-08-2018, 08:50 PM

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Originally Posted by markesc

This is a huge topic: 70% of divorces are initiated by women, YET, women put pressure on men to marry. It just screams asset forfeiture all over it.

I guess I'm part of the 30%.

I got the house, bank accounts, and custody of the kid. She got her personal belongings, a car, an old washer/dryer set, and $500. Sounds like some guys need better lawyers.

JARblue · 03-08-2018, 09:00 PM

We bought the Z for my wife in 7 years ago. She daily drove it for a year and a half before her commute changed and she needed an automatic for her daily. I then daily drove it until last November when I got a beater for my daily.

Earlier this week she asked for a divorce. I will be keeping the house and the Z as part of the divorce.

b15 · 03-09-2018, 09:57 AM

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Originally Posted by JARblue

We bought the Z for my wife in 7 years ago. She daily drove it for a year and a half before her commute changed and she needed an automatic for her daily. I then daily drove it until last November when I got a beater for my daily.

Earlier this week she asked for a divorce. I will be keeping the house and the Z as part of the divorce.

For real? Sorry to hear about that (unless of course you're happy about it, then congrats?).

Magic Bus · 03-09-2018, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by markesc

This is a huge topic: 70% of divorces are initiated by women, YET, women put pressure on men to marry. It just screams asset forfeiture all over it.

Saw Judge Judy touching a little on this topic. She said as a judge for years, she can't understand why women want to marry a man, then expects them to change. When they realize they can't change him, they now want a divorce.

She then said, marry a man for who he is, not what you want him to be.

While I'm sure, every divorce has it's own set of circumstances, I'm fairly sure this is a big part of the 70%.

2011_6Spd · 03-09-2018, 08:02 PM

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I've owned motorcycles most of my life. Just before I married my first wife. I sold both a street bike and dirt bike with the idea of getting a new street bike. Then I got married. I told the new wife that I'm planning on getting a new street bike. She said ok, but after we get a house. We get the house. Told her I'm get a bike. She said ok, but after we get a new roof on the house. This went on for a while. Like 17 years.

New roof, windows, doors, deck, front porch, rewired the house, and a couple of other things. After each item was done I told her I'm getting a bike. So finally after I basically rebuilt the house. Nothing left to do, as everything is new. I told the wife that I'm buying a bike. She said ok. I go and buy a new bike and bring it home. She thought I was kidding all of these 17 years.

Took her 2 months to go out to the shed to see the bike. She would not ride with me either. We stayed married for 30 yrs until she died from cancer. And she didn't like any of my hobbies. Wife number 2 loves to ride. And she loves my hobbies.

You are one patient dood. 17 years. Trust me I got this problem right now wanting to buy a C7 Z06 - it's need a new a/c, need a new roof, need this and that for the darn house. I'll never get that darn Corvette and they keep getting more expensive each new model.

03-06-2018, 07:32 AM	#33 (permalink)
Dirk McGurck Track Member Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: Delaware Posts: 715 Drives: 09 MB 370Z Touring Rep Power: 21	My Z ownership lasted longer than my marriage. __________________ 2009 370Z Touring with Sport

03-06-2018, 08:44 AM	#34 (permalink)
GuiLLoZ Base Member Join Date: Dec 2014 Location: Puerto Rico Posts: 81 Drives: 13 KaD M6 Rep Power: 11	Well before i met my wife i had already the Z she loved it and when the question arrived if i needed to sell my Z she said no that's our get away, then i went and bought her an ex35 infinity and i still have my toy even thou she didn't asked for it lol, when i take my kid to school i have the car seat on the Z no problem and she loves it too!!, so not selling any time soon thank God! Fuzzzy likes this. __________________ Stillen gen 3 CAI/koyorad oilcooler/custom full exhaust/ecutek/20mm spacers/megan springs

03-06-2018, 08:55 AM	#35 (permalink)
B&W_Evader Track Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: CA Posts: 972 Drives: slower than before Rep Power: 387	Had a pumped out 69 Vette before the Z that hardly ever got driven. Sold it and bought the Z a couple of weeks later. Daily driver now so, while it's not as bad-a$$, It gets driven probably 50x more often. It did cost me an Acura RDX and a garage spot before the bitching stopped. One freaking expensive Z. b15, Magic Bus and 1st like this. __________________ \|RIP\|6spd-sport\|OSG-LSD\|XP8\|RBF600\|Eibach Sways\|RE-71R\|FI-34Row\|Gen3-CAI\|Yaw P.S.\|

03-08-2018, 09:00 PM	#42 (permalink)
JARblue A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Austin, TX Age: 44 Posts: 36,450 Drives: 11 Z34, 98 E36 M3 Rep Power: 2684441	We bought the Z for my wife in 7 years ago. She daily drove it for a year and a half before her commute changed and she needed an automatic for her daily. I then daily drove it until last November when I got a beater for my daily. Earlier this week she asked for a divorce. I will be keeping the house and the Z as part of the divorce. ZeeingAround, Rusty, Zoren 370 and 4 others like this. __________________ 2011 370Z 6MT Sport Gun Metallic \| ARC \| CJM \| Ecutek \| FI \| Fujimura \| R2C \| SPL \| Stillen \| TWM \| Z1 \| ZSpeed \|

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