Over 30 and still single, post here.

Niche79 · 01-04-2014, 12:16 PM

my wife is half pinoy and she said she refuses to date other pinoys because of their wana be thug attitudes they always have. Shes half white but she said no way to them. Im white so go fig. Im still pretty gangsta though

DIGItonium · 01-05-2014, 03:20 AM

Haha. Nice. The one I'm chatting with is part Viet. She's fairly outgoing so it balances my mellow side. Who knows... Fun to chat with for now.

Onelownismo · 01-06-2014, 08:20 PM

I'm not quite 30 (only 26) and still single. Never have really had a "serious" relationship. Just lots of random couple week long flings. My longest has been maybe 4 months. Kind of pathetic but I think it's all me. I'm super picky and always find something wrong with the girl I'm talking to and kind of just stop talking to her.

Tried online dating for the last two years, met some really crazy girls and some really cool ones. The ones that I actually liked ended up friend zoning me. Yes, I'm the typical nice guy. I don't feel the need to change that though.

Recently I've given up on online dating and have just been more focused on myself. I've actually met 3-4 chicks in the past month but I don't know that I'm going to persue any of them.

Sorry if this didn't add anything of value to the conversation, just wanted to share what's going on in my life.

XiP · 01-06-2014, 09:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Onelownismo

I'm not quite 30 (only 26) and still single. Never have really had a "serious" relationship. Just lots of random couple week long flings. My longest has been maybe 4 months. Kind of pathetic but I think it's all me. I'm super picky and always find something wrong with the girl I'm talking to and kind of just stop talking to her.

Tried online dating for the last two years, met some really crazy girls and some really cool ones. The ones that I actually liked ended up friend zoning me. Yes, I'm the typical nice guy. I don't feel the need to change that though.

Recently I've given up on online dating and have just been more focused on myself. I've actually met 3-4 chicks in the past month but I don't know that I'm going to persue any of them.

Sorry if this didn't add anything of value to the conversation, just wanted to share what's going on in my life.

MGTOW high five

Onelownismo · 01-06-2014, 10:51 PM

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Originally Posted by XiP

MGTOW high five

Not gonna lie, I had to look that one up lol. But thanks.

exsanity · 01-06-2014, 11:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Onelownismo

Not gonna lie, I had to look that one up lol. But thanks.

obscure..

ImportConvert · 01-07-2014, 01:26 AM

I'm 28 in a few days and still single and have no intentions on dating or marrying anytime soon. I'm too "do it my way" and independent to compromise as much and as often as a typical relationship requires to work, I recognize this, and motor on.

DIGItonium · 01-07-2014, 09:31 AM

Interesting, indeed. I talked to a friend who works in my building. He purchased a house 3 years ago, and he's also in the same situation. I've been living alone in my new house for about 1.5 years now, and this is getting old. The elders keep telling me to go to Vietnam to find someone, and there's a small pool of girls I'm not too crazy about. Meh. I'm not that desperate.

The particular girl I'm talking to is a little young (22 soon), but she's very outgoing. She briefly attended my NYE party, and she quickly socialized and played beer pong with my friends. For awhile I thought she knew some of them. She works a lot, so I have to pace myself with texts and whatnot. It's a bit of a challenge to talk to her via text/phone since she either takes awhile to respond or it is brief. Unless we're planning something, I try not to send her more than 2-3 texts a day. In person, she's quite fun to talk to. We're going on a little dinner date tomorrow.

Right now I'm overthinking things because I've been FZ'd so many times, so I'm constantly watching my step. It's like playing Minesweeper. Click on the wrong tile, and I get FZ'd. Haha!

ImportConvert · 01-07-2014, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by DIGItonium

Interesting, indeed. I talked to a friend who works in my building. He purchased a house 3 years ago, and he's also in the same situation. I've been living alone in my new house for about 1.5 years now, and this is getting old. The elders keep telling me to go to Vietnam to find someone, and there's a small pool of girls I'm not too crazy about. Meh. I'm not that desperate.

The particular girl I'm talking to is a little young (22 soon), but she's very outgoing. She briefly attended my NYE party, and she quickly socialized and played beer pong with my friends. For awhile I thought she knew some of them. She works a lot, so I have to pace myself with texts and whatnot. It's a bit of a challenge to talk to her via text/phone since she either takes awhile to respond or it is brief. Unless we're planning something, I try not to send her more than 2-3 texts a day. In person, she's quite fun to talk to. We're going on a little dinner date tomorrow.

Right now I'm overthinking things because I've been FZ'd so many times, so I'm constantly watching my step. It's like playing Minesweeper. Click on the wrong tile, and I get FZ'd. Haha!

I just honestly don't see why people are so bent on getting married. It sounds like you feel peer pressured more than anything. Being single has some amazing benefits, as does being married, I am sure. Just live your life and let those chips fall how they will and don't worry about it, is my philosophy.

Onelownismo · 01-07-2014, 09:41 AM

LoL. Nice analogy Digi. Good luck!

DIGItonium · 01-07-2014, 11:43 AM

One of my dad's friends said "For your new years resolution, you need to get a girlfriend. Then a wife." I asked him "Both, or wife first, then girlfriend?" He said "No, no! You'll get in trouble if you do that."

There's this girl, who moved here from Vietnam about 2 years ago and obviously likes me (possibly wants to marry me to get permanent residence). She hangs out at my parents house at least once a week to the point my dad's friends wonder why I won't introduce them to my "girlfriend." I tell them I don't have one, and I'm told "She's upstairs." SMH. She's around 24 now, and she spends a lot of time with my mom. Both of my parents bugged me about her for awhile. Even my aunt suggested I give her a chance. Quite honestly, I've hung out with her a few times. That's it... no attraction. 2014... moving on.

That's the thing about most of these girls in or from Vietnam. Some of them are fairly aggressive, and it's easy to sense the motive with these girls. I look into her eyes, and I get weird vibes.

I definitely don't want to come off as desperate or looking to get married. I'm just trying to make the right moves like playing chess (not a chess player). I just want to have fun with this girl, and who knows what it'll lead to.

Chuck33079 · 01-07-2014, 11:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DIGItonium

One of my dad's friends said "For your new years resolution, you need to get a girlfriend. Then a wife." I asked him "Both, or wife first, then girlfriend?" He said "No, no! You'll get in trouble if you do that."

There's this girl, who moved here from Vietnam about 2 years ago and obviously likes me (possibly wants to marry me to get permanent residence). She hangs out at my parents house at least once a week to the point my dad's friends wonder why I won't introduce them to my "girlfriend." I tell them I don't have one, and I'm told "She's upstairs." SMH. She's around 24 now, and she spends a lot of time with my mom. Both of my parents bugged me about her for awhile. Even my aunt suggested I give her a chance. Quite honestly, I've hung out with her a few times. That's it... no attraction. 2014... moving on.

That's the thing about most of these girls in or from Vietnam. Some of them are fairly aggressive, and it's easy to sense the motive with these girls. I look into her eyes, and I get weird vibes.

I definitely don't want to come off as desperate or looking to get married. I'm just trying to make the right moves like playing chess (not a chess player). I just want to have fun with this girl, and who knows what it'll lead to.

So maybe I'm missing something, but why not look for non-Vietnamese chicks? I've never had a good experience with one. You **** them, not date them if you value your wallet.

DIGItonium · 01-07-2014, 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Chuck33079

So maybe I'm missing something, but why not look for non-Vietnamese chicks? I've never had a good experience with one. You **** them, not date them if you value your wallet.

Ain't that the truth! The friend I mentioned earlier gave up on Asian girls completely.

The last mixed girl I dated was Vietnamese/French and was culturally Vietnamese. It was a PITA of a relationship and lasted 6 months. The one I'm currently talking to is also mixed, but she is culturally Caucasian. I've never dated a white girl before, so this could get interesting if I play my cards right. She stays positive with her personality and is fairly attractive, so I'm sure she's tired of a bunch of dudes hitting on her with the same lines and whatnot. I'm trying to avoid that slippery slope.

In the meantime, I still keep my options open.

Chuck33079 · 01-07-2014, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by DIGItonium

Ain't that the truth! The friend I mentioned earlier gave up on Asian girls completely.

The last mixed girl I dated was Vietnamese/French, and was culturally Vietnamese. It was a PITA of a relationship and lasted 6 months. The one I'm currently talking to is also mixed, but she is culturally Caucasian. I've never dated a white girl before, so this could get interesting if I play my cards right. She stays positive with her personality and is fairly attractive, so I'm sure she's tired of a bunch of dudes hitting on her with the same lines and whatnot. I'm trying to avoid that slippery slope.

In the meantime, I still keep my options open.

I'm approaching a potentially racially charged subject with typical white guy ignorance, but I've got to ask- are most Asian girls superficial and money hungry, or is it just the ones who will date white guys? I have pretty good sample size that fit that stereotype to a T.

DIGItonium · 01-07-2014, 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Chuck33079

I'm approaching a potentially racially charged subject with typical white guy ignorance, but I've got to ask- are most Asian girls superficial and money hungry, or is it just the ones who will date white guys? I have pretty good sample size that fit that stereotype to a T.

Summary of 2013

My ex pretty much uses guys for food, money, and drinks. I was one of the victims as of last year when she wanted to get in touch with me again. I'd offer my care for her, and she goes off sleeping with some dude because she liked him. She thinks any of these dudes [business owners with money] might be the one, but they either dump her or tell her they don't want to be serious. Talks about being broke and money stuff a lot.
A girl I hung out talked about money stuff a lot and bragged about her purse collection including a $5k purse. Complained about her ex-bfs spending money on their cars. Barely lasted 2 days.
Another one is showing interest hanging out with me, but my friends say she dates guys for money.
The one that hangs out with my mom is nice, but she seems to bribe them with gifts and kindness. Claims my mom is her close friend. Even watches movies with her and her friend till 3AM. It's obvious she's gotta motive, and I don't fall for that jazz.

01-04-2014, 12:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
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01-05-2014, 03:20 AM	#2 (permalink)
DIGItonium A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,800 Drives: 09 Z34-TT 6MT Rep Power: 44	Haha. Nice. The one I'm chatting with is part Viet. She's fairly outgoing so it balances my mellow side. Who knows... Fun to chat with for now. __________________ Last edited by DIGItonium; 01-05-2014 at 10:18 PM.

01-06-2014, 08:20 PM	#3 (permalink)
Onelownismo Track Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Suffolk, VA Age: 39 Posts: 805 Drives: 09 PG base/sport Rep Power: 17	I'm not quite 30 (only 26) and still single. Never have really had a "serious" relationship. Just lots of random couple week long flings. My longest has been maybe 4 months. Kind of pathetic but I think it's all me. I'm super picky and always find something wrong with the girl I'm talking to and kind of just stop talking to her. Tried online dating for the last two years, met some really crazy girls and some really cool ones. The ones that I actually liked ended up friend zoning me. Yes, I'm the typical nice guy. I don't feel the need to change that though. Recently I've given up on online dating and have just been more focused on myself. I've actually met 3-4 chicks in the past month but I don't know that I'm going to persue any of them. Sorry if this didn't add anything of value to the conversation, just wanted to share what's going on in my life. DIGItonium and XiP like this. __________________ 2009 Base w/ Sport - Fast Intentions - Stillen - Whiteline - BC - SSR - Enkei - Z1 - UpRev Tuned

01-07-2014, 09:31 AM	#8 (permalink)
DIGItonium A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,800 Drives: 09 Z34-TT 6MT Rep Power: 44	Interesting, indeed. I talked to a friend who works in my building. He purchased a house 3 years ago, and he's also in the same situation. I've been living alone in my new house for about 1.5 years now, and this is getting old. The elders keep telling me to go to Vietnam to find someone, and there's a small pool of girls I'm not too crazy about. Meh. I'm not that desperate. The particular girl I'm talking to is a little young (22 soon), but she's very outgoing. She briefly attended my NYE party, and she quickly socialized and played beer pong with my friends. For awhile I thought she knew some of them. She works a lot, so I have to pace myself with texts and whatnot. It's a bit of a challenge to talk to her via text/phone since she either takes awhile to respond or it is brief. Unless we're planning something, I try not to send her more than 2-3 texts a day. In person, she's quite fun to talk to. We're going on a little dinner date tomorrow. Right now I'm overthinking things because I've been FZ'd so many times, so I'm constantly watching my step. It's like playing Minesweeper. Click on the wrong tile, and I get FZ'd. Haha! __________________

01-07-2014, 09:41 AM	#10 (permalink)
Onelownismo Track Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Suffolk, VA Age: 39 Posts: 805 Drives: 09 PG base/sport Rep Power: 17	LoL. Nice analogy Digi. Good luck! __________________ 2009 Base w/ Sport - Fast Intentions - Stillen - Whiteline - BC - SSR - Enkei - Z1 - UpRev Tuned

01-07-2014, 01:26 AM	#7 (permalink)
ImportConvert A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: SWMO Posts: 4,454 Drives: 2019 CX5 GT Reserve Rep Power: 7629	I'm 28 in a few days and still single and have no intentions on dating or marrying anytime soon. I'm too "do it my way" and independent to compromise as much and as often as a typical relationship requires to work, I recognize this, and motor on.

01-07-2014, 11:43 AM	#11 (permalink)
DIGItonium A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,800 Drives: 09 Z34-TT 6MT Rep Power: 44	One of my dad's friends said "For your new years resolution, you need to get a girlfriend. Then a wife." I asked him "Both, or wife first, then girlfriend?" He said "No, no! You'll get in trouble if you do that." There's this girl, who moved here from Vietnam about 2 years ago and obviously likes me (possibly wants to marry me to get permanent residence). She hangs out at my parents house at least once a week to the point my dad's friends wonder why I won't introduce them to my "girlfriend." I tell them I don't have one, and I'm told "She's upstairs." SMH. She's around 24 now, and she spends a lot of time with my mom. Both of my parents bugged me about her for awhile. Even my aunt suggested I give her a chance. Quite honestly, I've hung out with her a few times. That's it... no attraction. 2014... moving on. That's the thing about most of these girls in or from Vietnam. Some of them are fairly aggressive, and it's easy to sense the motive with these girls. I look into her eyes, and I get weird vibes. I definitely don't want to come off as desperate or looking to get married. I'm just trying to make the right moves like playing chess (not a chess player). I just want to have fun with this girl, and who knows what it'll lead to. XiP likes this. __________________

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