Over 30 and still single, post here.

Joepro

Sometimes its too much like work, I get done at work, I am tired from all the BS I hear from people and employees, sometime I go to the park for a walk afterwards, then I am really tired, and I deal with people all day so being sleep deprived is a NO NO. The Z needs attention too!

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coolvans1988

Hit the gym and try to become friends with a cute girl thats a beginner.
Not too chubby, thin, or one of those eye candy girls that we will occasionally glance at... But aim for a cute average looking girl. Maybe it's a start.

kenchan

not sure, but if you're one of them good looking athletic types hitting on girls at the gym, i dont think they'd be posting here..?

coolvans1988

It was just a suggestion to try something new and change up his routine. And I don't hit on the girls at the gym lol, I'm happily married.

ElVee

Besides, the gym is a questionable place to hit on girls. You're sweaty and gross and amped up on testosterone, and likely the girls are being rather self-conscious in their routines and get-up. Often they would like nothing better than to be left alone from the creeps at the gym. I tend to enjoy the view, but never do anything to make them creeped out or discouraged from being there.

Bets are off if they come up to you, though.

DIGItonium

It's okay, I'm in the same boat. Look on the bright side. There are people who are in a much worse situation, so embrace what you have and your qualities. You can't really change who you really are other than to evolve as you grow older. So what if I'm a nice guy? My quality as a "nice guy" is what makes me approachable and sociable with anyone. I can't change that, but at least I can try to be smarter about it. Just be yourself and have some fun.

Think about your interests and figure out some conversation starters. Don't think too hard or your mind will go blank.

As I've been told, there's someone for everyone. I've come to accept it's not my time yet, so I'll work on myself and explore whenever I can. I just need to start making the moves sooner, but half the time I hesitate or the timing isn't right.

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TXSpeedDemon

DIGI oi!

If you are looking for a nice Vietnamese girl you need to move to Dallas. My wife is Vietnamese and has lots of very cute single friends, and I don't have many single guy friends who like Asian girls.

If you ever end up down here look me up, I'd be happy to show you around town and make some introductions.

nmjaxx9

This thread is very sad.

Jump on e-harmony or something OP, do somethin with your life.

Haboob

Sorry it's so sad.


If eHarmony wasn't so expensive, I'd try that.


I tried a month of Match.com and it was pointless. 90% of the girls aren't paid accounts and can't communicate.

DIGItonium

Nah, I don't need dating sites. Hope not. It beats going back to Vietnam to find a wife I tell ya.

OMG, I'd love to drive to Dallas for the weekend. I'm already taking this Friday! Don't know if I can make it back sober though lol.

This is me in Dallas last year. I drank a lot at my friend's wedding, whom he met his wife on eHarmony. Then we hit up an awesome club (too wasted to remember the name), but there was this cute Viet girl DJ who played some awesome tracks I couldn't help but dance. My friends try to blackmail me with the video of myself doing the seizure dance while messed up on what appears to be a mix of Goose and some sort of Rx that someone laced in my shot. It was bad and my friends didn't try hard enough to stop me from taking it. I told my friends that I would pretend to be messed up so people won't give me anymore shots. Little did I know it was already too late.

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TXSpeedDemon

This looks like you're at the iHop in Frisco. If so you're minutes from my house and 2 very cute girls my wife has been looking to set up. Next time you're in town let me know. We don't get out much now that we have a baby, but with enough notice we could set something up, or have a dinner party type thing.

Half of her friends are old school Vietnamese - been here a few years and speak kind of broken English (like my wife when I met her). The other half are American who speaks some Vietnamese. Most are out of their first marriages, some with kids. They're all cute in their own ways but all good options for wife material.

ElVee

For the fun factor, I try to tell people I try to outwit hackers. It's not nearly as interesting as it sounds (like watching log alerts), but it excites some people.

For the, "can you fix my computer," people, I actually tell them I work on servers and networking gear, and am really bad about desktops anymore. Which is more and more the truth since I grew into IT with XP and while I know it inside and out, I'm far less deep into Vista/7/8. I also haven't been on a desktop team in 7 years.

For the, "I need website help..." I am a little less clear on what I do. I know how to code, but I don't code on our dev team and don't really design much (unpracticed with images/graphics). I do, however, support the dev team, know many developers, and do host sites...so...it's hard to convince normal people that I can't (or don't) want to help them.

tRidiot

Dude, I'm there! I'm only a few hours away!

Chuck33079

That's absolutely right. It takes effort and practice. That's why it's called chasing *****, not tripping over *****.

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blackcherry20

The chase is part of the excitement of dating...

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