Over 30 and still single, post here.

frost

Just people chatting on a forum to pass time. Novel concept, I know. Why not cut everyone some slack?

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exsanity

No chat for you!

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saber

don't like it? then don't read it. plenty of other threads to read.

btw, what oil should i be using?

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DIGItonium

KY Synthetic.

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122554

It's an open forum. If you don't like the replies, don't start the post!

Oil? Anal lube works great!

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I don't normally drink beer, but when I do....i drink a lot!

saber

hey now, i'm one of the most active in these threads

i...kinda f*cked up a little last week, so we'll see how things go.

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exsanity

What did you do this time?

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Driftomodachi

Divorced. Married for 7 years. I hope to leave the "Lonely Driver's Club" soon if things work out. Not gonna make the same mistake twice though lol

frost

I must have missed the nazi spock episode

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DIGItonium

Just a topic many can relate to, and it has been a fun one. I've run into several friends who are in the same situation as well. Where I'm at it IS tough. It's just the mentality.

The girl I met at a restaurant a few months ago (youngest, who was honest enough to tell me she had no interests) contacted me out of the blue. She met a guy and later realized was a total dbag. He couldn't respect women. She said that's what she gets for falling for a good looking guy since it matters to her. She says lots of guys here treat her well, but she has no interest in them. Then tells me to come visit her workplace on Wednesday. Ha! I'm not falling for that. Maybe get her to meet me up instead. Although she's fun to talk to, that's pretty much it.

As for the one I went on a date with last week, I bumped into her Friday night at a piano bar, had drinks, danced, etc. I made moves to get closer (hugs, kisses on the side, hand contact, etc.), and she responded quick. Phone communication is still iffy. This is all deja vu, and my spider senses are tingling... I have a feeling she's already got someone. I'll just ride this one out and try to squeeze in a few more dates since she hasn't given me the "speech" yet. Peculiar behavior, indeed.

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Haboob

Met up with a friend of mine at the bar and we talked a bit (about everything). She kind of subtly told me that if/when I'm out, my posture should be more inviting or open.

Makes sense, and this is something I "knew" in the back of my mind, but never really realized I wasn't doing it.

exsanity

How does one posture themselves invitingly?

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kenchan

not sure, that usually gets us into trouble

Haboob

When you're sitting at the bar, not sitting facing the bar, etc. kind of open yourself up to those around you - like facing people rather than the bartender/TVs. Be relaxed.

Things like that.


Opposite of what I do.

Driftomodachi