Anyone who dated a nurse with a busy schedule?

Isamu · 04-15-2013, 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Stino

All kidding aside, she sounds like the perfect girlfriend. Never around (working all the time and out with fiends), leaving you to do whatever you want (Moding your 370Z). She is probably the type of chick that will satisfy you and herself, then leave you alone so she can shop for shoes and purses. It's a dream come true! Seriously!

yea, but she doesn't put out..

and I don't think(no offense digi, just an observation) that Digi could handle that. If he doesn't need physciatric help now, he will if he goes in full retard for this chick..

I think he is doing good, but bro, seal the deal.. sleep with her and see whats up

Infamous · 04-15-2013, 04:41 PM

You should deny her the next time she wants to do something and say you're busy. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Or better yet, flake on her.

DIGItonium · 04-15-2013, 04:46 PM

BTW, I'm not losing much. Just some of my time and a portion of my unlimited minutes and texts.

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Originally Posted by Infamous

You should deny her the next time she wants to do something and say you're busy. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Or better yet, flake on her.

Sure thing. If I make it too easy by accepting, she'll bail just as easily.

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Originally Posted by Stino

All kidding aside, she sounds like the perfect girlfriend. Never around (working all the time and out with fiends), leaving you to do whatever you want (Moding your 370Z). She is probably the type of chick that will satisfy you and herself, then leave you alone so she can shop for shoes and purses. It's a dream come true! Seriously!

Your logic is valid. Best not to burn bridges by blowing up with a "fuuuuuuuu" reaction.

Isamu · 04-15-2013, 05:12 PM

lol

b15 · 04-15-2013, 06:55 PM

I've dated two nurses in the past and never had an issue with their schedules. As someone else stated they typically work 3-12s and whatever overtime comes along so they can have plenty of time off. She does seem busy but I wouldn't hold my breathe for her though.

Jordo! · 04-15-2013, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu

but thats the thing, he isn't hitting it..

he hasn't sealed the deal.. and if he doesn't soon, he will be friend-zoned like a boss

Oh.

Well, if by the third or fourth date/get together/hanging out/whatever there's no sex, or at least some activity in that ballpark, she's either not interested or going to be an enormous PITA to deal with or both.

Promises, busy schedules, sweet talk, blah blah blah. No sex = just friends.

Isamu · 04-15-2013, 07:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Jordo!

Oh.

Well, if by the third or fourth date/get together/hanging out/whatever there's no sex, or at least some activity in that ballpark, she's either not interested or going to be an enormous PITA to deal with or both.

Promises, busy schedules, sweet talk, blah blah blah. No sex = just friends.

bingo!

kensin0429 · 04-15-2013, 07:44 PM

Just go for another girl. She just saying this things to keep your hopes up !! You are already in the trap anyways but aint getting no cheese

2xtreme1 · 04-15-2013, 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Infamous

You should deny her the next time she wants to do something and say you're busy. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Or better yet, flake on her.

This could work ^ :P
since she is not always making herself available, do the same to her

DIGItonium · 04-15-2013, 11:49 PM

Haha yea we only hung out twice and she bailed several times afterward. Not sure why she keeps planning and bailing and apologizing so much. She mentioned Friday that we should have dinner this week. I didn't answer. Just told her whenever she is not so busy and cut the conversation short. That's it... I'll leave her alone from there so I can find more productive things to do.

Infamous · 04-16-2013, 12:56 AM

Agree to dinner and then ditch her to go do something else. Gotta play the game a little. Telling her whenever she's not busy is saying you're available all the time. It's up to you though. Just my two cents on what's worked for me.

Jordo! · 04-16-2013, 01:24 AM

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Originally Posted by DIGItonium

Haha yea we only hung out twice and she bailed several times afterward. Not sure why she keeps planning and bailing and apologizing so much. She mentioned Friday that we should have dinner this week. I didn't answer. Just told her whenever she is not so busy and cut the conversation short. That's it... I'll leave her alone from there so I can find more productive things to do.

That is pretty annoying.

Either, (1) she's somewhat interested but there's someone else in the background, so it's "complicated" and she's flirting but not (for now) budging, or (2) she's just too timid to flatly say "not interested in anything, so we have no reason to stay in touch".

The first option s distracting and frustrating; the second is disappointing and depressing... both suck

Cmike2780 · 05-06-2013, 01:52 PM

So, I just met this girl. Who's a nurse

Anyway, we got to talking and I'm about to make plans with her. She already said yes to hanging out and I told her I'd give her a call about setting something up. She lives in NYC and has probably seen it all, so my dilemma now is finding good ideas for a first date. I can't think of anything that's not cheesy.

Maybe I should just keep it simple. Coffee and Central Park maybe? Ahhhh! Amazing how the simplest things can drive you nuts.

DIGItonium · 05-06-2013, 01:55 PM

Have you figured out what to wear?

I completely gave up on the other girl since I never heard from her. From what I'm told, it's all about $$ with her. It's obvious when the first week of talking to her she already talked about $$ issues.

Cmike2780 · 05-06-2013, 02:25 PM

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Originally Posted by DIGItonium

Have you figured out what to wear?

Haha, that's the easy part. Nice Jeans, nice shirt...keeping it simple. Lesson learned after meeting up this one girl and was a bit overdressed for what she was wearing.

I'm trying to tell myself I'm overthinking this, but my subconscious is kind of a di*k. This is a semi-blind date and to be honest, I've never been on a blind date. She works with my mom at the hospital and I've only met her once in passing. She was cute from what I remember.

...Also, she gave me her number before even talking to her, so technically I have nothing to lose here.

04-15-2013, 06:55 PM	#65 (permalink)
b15 A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,229 Drives: 4drz Rep Power: 36571	I've dated two nurses in the past and never had an issue with their schedules. As someone else stated they typically work 3-12s and whatever overtime comes along so they can have plenty of time off. She does seem busy but I wouldn't hold my breathe for her though. UNKNOWN_370 likes this.

04-15-2013, 07:44 PM	#68 (permalink)
kensin0429 Base Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: palmsprings Posts: 244 Drives: 370z Rep Power: 15	Just go for another girl. She just saying this things to keep your hopes up !! You are already in the trap anyways but aint getting no cheese __________________ 10 40th AE Z

04-15-2013, 11:49 PM	#70 (permalink)
DIGItonium A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,800 Drives: 09 Z34-TT 6MT Rep Power: 42	Haha yea we only hung out twice and she bailed several times afterward. Not sure why she keeps planning and bailing and apologizing so much. She mentioned Friday that we should have dinner this week. I didn't answer. Just told her whenever she is not so busy and cut the conversation short. That's it... I'll leave her alone from there so I can find more productive things to do. __________________

04-16-2013, 12:56 AM	#71 (permalink)
Infamous Track Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 656 Drives: 2012 Nissan 370z mt Rep Power: 13	Agree to dinner and then ditch her to go do something else. Gotta play the game a little. Telling her whenever she's not busy is saying you're available all the time. It's up to you though. Just my two cents on what's worked for me. DIGItonium likes this.

05-06-2013, 01:52 PM	#73 (permalink)
Cmike2780 A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Long Island Posts: 5,059 Drives: slowwww Rep Power: 28	So, I just met this girl. Who's a nurse Anyway, we got to talking and I'm about to make plans with her. She already said yes to hanging out and I told her I'd give her a call about setting something up. She lives in NYC and has probably seen it all, so my dilemma now is finding good ideas for a first date. I can't think of anything that's not cheesy. Maybe I should just keep it simple. Coffee and Central Park maybe? Ahhhh! Amazing how the simplest things can drive you nuts. __________________ [09][MB][6-Spd MT][Touring][Stillen Gen III][K&N][Borla CBE][Evo-R] [ArchitTEK Photography]

04-15-2013, 04:41 PM	#62 (permalink)
Infamous Track Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: Las Vegas Posts: 656 Drives: 2012 Nissan 370z mt Rep Power: 13	You should deny her the next time she wants to do something and say you're busy. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Or better yet, flake on her.

05-06-2013, 01:55 PM	#74 (permalink)
DIGItonium A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,800 Drives: 09 Z34-TT 6MT Rep Power: 42	Have you figured out what to wear? I completely gave up on the other girl since I never heard from her. From what I'm told, it's all about $$ with her. It's obvious when the first week of talking to her she already talked about $$ issues. __________________

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