Bye bye Inky :(

SkyZ · 03-02-2011, 05:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu

I have a 91 300zx TT auto that i can let go for super cheap, she needs some TLC and a good home....

read TLC as: runs, but needs work to be pro, and super cheap as in 600-1000$

Nice stuff + rep good sir

Nikon FM · 03-02-2011, 05:44 PM

Sorry to hear Sophia….best of luck!

Ron · 03-02-2011, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu

I have a 91 300zx TT auto that i can let go for super cheap, she needs some TLC and a good home....

read TLC as: runs, but needs work to be pro, and super cheap as in 600-1000$

I'll give u $2000 plus paypal fees...

jk!

and rep'd Isamu for being a nice guy!

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

This makes me a fan of separate finances. I always advised my friends to never buy anything they couldn't pay for 100% on their own if they dump their girl/she dumps them, and visa versa my female friends. I usually play the ref as I don't mess with the whole relationship game.

werd, I coined the phrase "emotional tampon" back in the day for situations like that... being the mediator sucks, but it's the one thing i was really good at back in the day lol

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Originally Posted by Ron

I'll give u $2000 plus paypal fees...

jk!

and rep'd Isamu for being a nice guy!

I have actually gotten a few pms about it.. lol, but SophiaZ's got 1st dibs

ImportConvert · 03-03-2011, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Isamu

werd, I coined the phrase "emotional tampon" back in the day for situations like that... being the mediator sucks, but it's the one thing i was really good at back in the day lol

I have actually gotten a few pms about it.. lol, but SophiaZ's got 1st dibs

I don't mess with relationships/dating/etc.
I am all about being successful at what I do, pumping iron, and enjoying life.
My friends use me as a 3rd party for advice as I can see the situation from the outside looking in.

I don't mind mediating at all. It re-affirms my choice of bachelorhood every time I help out

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 03:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

I don't mess with relationships/dating/etc.
I am all about being successful at what I do, pumping iron, and enjoying life.
My friends use me as a 3rd party for advice as I can see the situation from the outside looking in.

I don't mind mediating at all. It re-affirms my choice of bachelorhood every time I help out

yup, I was always better at other peoples relationships then my own.. but im older now... and hopefully a little less fail at it LOL

SophiaZ · 03-02-2011, 04:40 AM

pmed

Isamu · 03-02-2011, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

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BLKNIZMO · 03-02-2011, 09:45 AM

wow sorry to hear that sophia... its gonna be tough as heck.. let me be the first to tell you... and dont part out the z if you dont have to... try to sell it im sure it will go fast..

SophiaZ · 03-02-2011, 09:05 PM

^ its a complete nightmare... Im just lucky I have dogs and no kids... he wont fight me for the dogs haha

ImportConvert · 03-03-2011, 12:13 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

^ its a complete nightmare... Im just lucky I have dogs and no kids... he wont fight me for the dogs haha

I have heard of it, actually, lol

Relationships are just ugly things, avoid.

SophiaZ · 03-03-2011, 04:55 AM

To all those above.....
Never put full trust in someone ( no offense to those already married or in a serious relationship) but it only takes one slip for everything else to fail. Point being...always pay attention to your surroundings and the "signs"

Just have fun and see where shyt goes...been enjoying myself the last few months actually....I was stuck with the "husband" since I was 18. Doing things now I never had the chance to

It's all new and exciting, kinda

ImportConvert · 03-03-2011, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

To all those above.....
Never put full trust in someone ( no offense to those already married or in a serious relationship) but it only takes one slip for everything else to fail. Point being...always pay attention to your surroundings and the "signs"

Just have fun and see where shyt goes...been enjoying myself the last few months actually....I was stuck with the "husband" since I was 18. Doing things now I never had the chance to

It's all new and exciting, kinda

Exactly. Never give anyone anything you aren't just fine without, because without fail you will be fleeced.

Polite to everyone, nice to a select few, trusting of none.

I have never regretted my life philosophy.

I have watched couples with 4 decades of marriage behind them just walk away from each other before. All that "We've been happily married for 20 years!" stuff just makes me smile. Of course, I don't dog on married people, just like I don't dog on people who gamble. Everyone has something they enjoy that is hazardous to their health. So I politely smile and hope things go well.

SophiaZ · 03-03-2011, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

Exactly. Never give anyone anything you aren't just fine without, because without fail you will be fleeced.

Polite to everyone, nice to a select few, trusting of none.

I have never regretted my life philosophy.

I have watched couples with 4 decades of marriage behind them just walk away from each other before. All that "We've been happily married for 20 years!" stuff just makes me smile. Of course, I don't dog on married people, just like I don't dog on people who gamble. Everyone has something they enjoy that is hazardous to their health. So I politely smile and hope things go well.

Agreed.
Give me my Coronas, Bacardi Razz and pack or Newports...and my dogs and I'm a happy little camper LOL

But seriously tho... people change their minds every day about something. Always be careful in choices and try to make the right ones. Other than that..live life to the fullest. Never know what life'll bring tomorrow

shadoquad · 03-03-2011, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

Polite to everyone, nice to a select few, trusting of none.

No offense, but if you trust no one, then you'll never experience true friendship. Not in the "hey let's hang out" sense, but in the sense of having someone to rely on, even when the rest of the world thinks you're sh*t.

I've got a few friends like this, and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I'd also never betray their trust intentionally.

It's incredible to have people who will be there for you like that, and if you open yourself up to no one, you will never have that, or at least you'll take it for granted.

True, you're less likely to be hurt or betrayed if you keep everyone at a distance. But I wouldn't want to go through life like that. It's your philosophy, and if it suits you, then I'm happy for you. But it won't suit everyone. I wouldn't want to live my life like that. Not saying my way is better, just different.

03-02-2011, 05:44 PM	#2 (permalink)
Nikon FM Track Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Snoqualmie WA Posts: 973 Drives: 03 996TT Porsche Rep Power: 607	Sorry to hear Sophia….best of luck! __________________ Buddy Revell: "One man's sooner is another man's later"

03-02-2011, 04:40 AM	#7 (permalink)
SophiaZ A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: South Jersey Posts: 1,466 Drives: 2020 50th anniv 7AT Rep Power: 6733	pmed

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BLKNIZMO Banned Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Jacksonville Posts: 61 Drives: 2009 Black Nismo Rep Power: 0	wow sorry to hear that sophia... its gonna be tough as heck.. let me be the first to tell you... and dont part out the z if you dont have to... try to sell it im sure it will go fast..

03-02-2011, 09:05 PM	#10 (permalink)
SophiaZ A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: South Jersey Posts: 1,466 Drives: 2020 50th anniv 7AT Rep Power: 6733	^ its a complete nightmare... Im just lucky I have dogs and no kids... he wont fight me for the dogs haha

03-03-2011, 04:55 AM	#12 (permalink)
SophiaZ A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: South Jersey Posts: 1,466 Drives: 2020 50th anniv 7AT Rep Power: 6733	To all those above..... Never put full trust in someone ( no offense to those already married or in a serious relationship) but it only takes one slip for everything else to fail. Point being...always pay attention to your surroundings and the "signs" Just have fun and see where shyt goes...been enjoying myself the last few months actually....I was stuck with the "husband" since I was 18. Doing things now I never had the chance to It's all new and exciting, kinda