Over 30 and still single, post here.

Originally Posted by Cmike2780

Not for nothing, but a hug is not exactly what you want...is it? Be honest here. If you're attracted to her, your goal at the end of the date is, at the very least, a real kiss. Don't sell yourself short and settle for a long hug. Unless she's grabbing your junk, the hug means "friend-zone." Don't let that happen. You gotta make your intentions clear and go for it. As for confidence, you're already there bro. She agreed to go on a date with you for a reason so you're half way there. Most women are insecure about themselves and she's probably wondering about the same things you are.