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DIGItonium · 01-09-2014, 12:37 PM

The interruptions stemmed from briefly interrupting herself once to text someone, seeing friends coming in and getting up to chat with them (before ordering food and after dinner), and the lengthy conversation with the server. I gotta hand it to her though. She doesn't go off initiating hugs with everyone, and she hugged me quite a bit before and after the date. She's very charismatic, and one would probably describe her as a social butterfly.

I have a hunch she's the type that would be out and socializing with lots of people at the club. I don't get the vibe that she's out looking for guys since they're the ones chasing and creeping on her, but she seems to enjoy socializing with people. At this stage, if I were to see her I'd just hug if she initiates, get her a drink, quick chat, and just let her do her thing.

Agreed. I think she's giving me more time and opportunities. Personally, the challenge is not entirely about her, but it's for me to figure out how to make the right moves, be myself, and stay confident.

Cmike2780 · 01-09-2014, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by DIGItonium

The interruptions stemmed from briefly interrupting herself once to text someone, seeing friends coming in and getting up to chat with them (before ordering food and after dinner), and the lengthy conversation with the server. I gotta hand it to her though. She doesn't go off initiating hugs with everyone, and she hugged me quite a bit before and after the date. She's very charismatic, and one would probably describe her as a social butterfly.

Not for nothing, but a hug is not exactly what you want...is it? Be honest here. If you're attracted to her, your goal at the end of the date is, at the very least, a real kiss. Don't sell yourself short and settle for a long hug. Unless she's grabbing your junk, the hug means "friend-zone." Don't let that happen. You gotta make your intentions clear and go for it. As for confidence, you're already there bro. She agreed to go on a date with you for a reason so you're half way there. Most women are insecure about themselves and she's probably wondering about the same things you are.

Chuck33079 · 01-09-2014, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Cmike2780

Not for nothing, but a hug is not exactly what you want...is it? Be honest here. If you're attracted to her, your goal at the end of the date is, at the very least, a real kiss. Don't sell yourself short and settle for a long hug. Unless she's grabbing your junk, the hug means "friend-zone." Don't let that happen. You gotta make your intentions clear and go for it. As for confidence, you're already there bro. She agreed to go on a date with you for a reason so you're half way there. Most women are insecure about themselves and she's probably wondering about the same things you are.

Yep. Most guys get friendzoned because they're wishy-washy about their intentions. If there is a second date of any type, kiss her. If she doesn't go for it, she's gone.

01-09-2014, 12:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
DIGItonium A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Kansas Posts: 3,800 Drives: 09 Z34-TT 6MT Rep Power: 44	The interruptions stemmed from briefly interrupting herself once to text someone, seeing friends coming in and getting up to chat with them (before ordering food and after dinner), and the lengthy conversation with the server. I gotta hand it to her though. She doesn't go off initiating hugs with everyone, and she hugged me quite a bit before and after the date. She's very charismatic, and one would probably describe her as a social butterfly. I have a hunch she's the type that would be out and socializing with lots of people at the club. I don't get the vibe that she's out looking for guys since they're the ones chasing and creeping on her, but she seems to enjoy socializing with people. At this stage, if I were to see her I'd just hug if she initiates, get her a drink, quick chat, and just let her do her thing. Agreed. I think she's giving me more time and opportunities. Personally, the challenge is not entirely about her, but it's for me to figure out how to make the right moves, be myself, and stay confident. Cmike2780 and Ghostvette like this. __________________

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