Over 30 and still single, post here.

Haboob

May not necessarily be poking fun. They're asking questions to get a response/get you to talk too (depending on the tone of their questions too). Don't overthink everything. That's my problem and it's cost me a lot of opportunities (girls or otherwise).




I'm not 30 yet, but still single and dreading 30 if I'm still single by then. I usually have higher standards, which is a bad thing, but before I'd not even considered their education/work. Now, I want an "educated" girl, one with a career, not a career waitress or bartender, etc. Someone that can pay their way to a vacation or whatever if we wanted to go, not rely on someone else to always pay or never do anything, because they don't have any money.

Obviously we all want someone that's an 8 or better, but the ones I have met (very few, still haven't had a GF though) have been dumber than a box of rocks.

I met a girl a few months back, not a supermodel, not necessarily that girl you'd working at the bar/dancing on the bar, but still attractive enough and her personality was (is) awesome, but she also has a kid (not really into it, but was willing to give it a shot) and it ended up all being a tease, as she wasn't ready to be in a relationship, etc.

We still talk, maybe hang out every now and again, but my feelings for her are not as they were before - her loss.




Hopefully the right one will come along here soon.