The New “What did you do with your Z today” (with off topic replies) XXXIX

BettyZ · 04-21-2021, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by -ZS-Carpenter

Well Dads had enough. The second round of chemo really messed him up and he is done. Just got off the phone with the first hospice liaison. That was a fun call, should have been there but only 1 visitor per day because after a year of this covid **** people are still too stupid to put a mask on in public and wash their hands you nasty mofos.

I split out of work and am going to find the answer to my problems in the bottom of one of these budweisers

Tomorrow I have to start cleaning up his place so we can get the bed and other BS set up. His 4 years of widower life is going to be fun to clean up

I see a 40 yard roll off getting dropped in the not to distant future.

And my grandma, dads mom, had a mini stroke on monday. She is knocking on 90s door and been having issues for a while. Everyone has been preparing for that one but looks like we get a double header this summer.

If anyone is interested in a '18 or '19 Sierra Denali 2500 diesel/allison, low mileage and has never towed more than a small fishing boat, let me know. I'll have that up for sale in a week or 2. It's the only thing he has a payment on so it's the first to go

Terribly sorry to hear that Bill

Ghostvette · 04-21-2021, 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by -ZS-Carpenter

Well Dads had enough. The second round of chemo really messed him up and he is done. Just got off the phone with the first hospice liaison. That was a fun call, should have been there but only 1 visitor per day because after a year of this covid **** people are still too stupid to put a mask on in public and wash their hands you nasty mofos.

I split out of work and am going to find the answer to my problems in the bottom of one of these budweisers

Tomorrow I have to start cleaning up his place so we can get the bed and other BS set up. His 4 years of widower life is going to be fun to clean up

I see a 40 yard roll off getting dropped in the not to distant future.

And my grandma, dads mom, had a mini stroke on monday. She is knocking on 90s door and been having issues for a while. Everyone has been preparing for that one but looks like we get a double header this summer.

If anyone is interested in a '18 or '19 Sierra Denali 2500 diesel/allison, low mileage and has never towed more than a small fishing boat, let me know. I'll have that up for sale in a week or 2. It's the only thing he has a payment on so it's the first to go

Man, I don't have words.

My dad will be 90 in May and my mom is 86. Dad is going strong, Mom's short-term memory is shot and she won't get up out of her chair to do much of anything. I'm trying to get them into an assisted living facility to hopefully jolt Mom into doing something, but who knows.

Let us know if there is anything we can do, even it's nothing more than a place to vent.

-ZS-Carpenter · 04-21-2021, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Ghostvette

Man, I don't have words.

My dad will be 90 in May and my mom is 86. Dad is going strong, Mom's short-term memory is shot and she won't get up out of her chair to do much of anything. I'm trying to get them into an assisted living facility to hopefully jolt Mom into doing something, but who knows.

Let us know if there is anything we can do, even it's nothing more than a place to vent.

Dads only 62. Same age as a bunch of you not so old guys. I never thought my parents would make 80+ but I thought I'd have a bit more than this and a more dignifying ending. Something like he wrecked his boat while going to have a world record bass weighed in but having to fight off 2 strippers trying to go down on him in the captains chair. Or Some crazy **** at Sturgis this year, he had a trip booked for him and my aunt to ride out. They wanted to go last year but covid...

My thoughts about my sister passing have completely changed. I was both mad and sad that she went so early and missed out on so much. But the only memories I have are of her alive. I can't remember anything of dad but how he is now and it's going to get way worse in a hurry. Chits fZcked up

Spooler · 04-21-2021, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by -ZS-Carpenter

Dads only 62. Same age as a bunch of you not so old guys. I never thought my parents would make 80+ but I thought I'd have a bit more than this and a more dignifying ending. Something like he wrecked his boat while going to have a world record bass weighed in but having to fight off 2 strippers trying to go down on him in the captains chair. Or Some crazy **** at Sturgis this year, he had a trip booked for him and my aunt to ride out. They wanted to go last year but covid...

My thoughts about my sister passing have completely changed. I was both mad and sad that she went so early and missed out on so much. But the only memories I have are of her alive. I can't remember anything of dad but how he is now and it's going to get way worse in a hurry. Chits fZcked up

Sorry to hear. Hang in there the best you can. We are all here for you.

-ZS-Carpenter · 04-21-2021, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Spooler

Sorry to hear. Hang in there the best you can. We are all here for you.

I would love a hell ride in your car right now

that might be the only thing that would get my mind off what I'm dealing with.

I'll be ok, I just need a bit

Rusty · 04-21-2021, 04:43 PM

Sorry hear this Bill.

I figure with the type of cancer he has and the stage it's in. It wouldn't be long. Just hope he goes peacefully. When my first wifey was doing chemo. It would beat her up for over a week. It's not fun to watch a loved one go thought it.

There is nothing you can do about it either. Your dad it not the the first one to try chemo and quit it. So please not blame him for not trying. Remember the good times you had with him. Those are the memories you will cherish the most. We will keep him in our prayer, along with your gramdma. If you need anything, even to let off steam. Let us know.

bunk · 04-22-2021, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by -ZS-Carpenter

Dads only 62. Same age as a bunch of you not so old guys. I never thought my parents would make 80+ but I thought I'd have a bit more than this and a more dignifying ending. Something like he wrecked his boat while going to have a world record bass weighed in but having to fight off 2 strippers trying to go down on him in the captains chair. Or Some crazy **** at Sturgis this year, he had a trip booked for him and my aunt to ride out. They wanted to go last year but covid...

My thoughts about my sister passing have completely changed. I was both mad and sad that she went so early and missed out on so much. But the only memories I have are of her alive. I can't remember anything of dad but how he is now and it's going to get way worse in a hurry. Chits fZcked up

I know its cliche, but hang in there man. I lost my dad about 7 years ago. I couldnt make it to his funeral, and I was a mess for a good 6 months. But you are absolutely correct. The memories of our loved ones remain alive. I think about him every single day

Zingston · 04-21-2021, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by -ZS-Carpenter

Well Dads had enough. The second round of chemo really messed him up and he is done. Just got off the phone with the first hospice liaison. That was a fun call, should have been there but only 1 visitor per day because after a year of this covid **** people are still too stupid to put a mask on in public and wash their hands you nasty mofos.

I split out of work and am going to find the answer to my problems in the bottom of one of these budweisers

Tomorrow I have to start cleaning up his place so we can get the bed and other BS set up. His 4 years of widower life is going to be fun to clean up

I see a 40 yard roll off getting dropped in the not to distant future.

And my grandma, dads mom, had a mini stroke on monday. She is knocking on 90s door and been having issues for a while. Everyone has been preparing for that one but looks like we get a double header this summer.

If anyone is interested in a '18 or '19 Sierra Denali 2500 diesel/allison, low mileage and has never towed more than a small fishing boat, let me know. I'll have that up for sale in a week or 2. It's the only thing he has a payment on so it's the first to go

I wish I had the right words... just know I'm praying for him, for you and your family.

Hotrodz · 04-21-2021, 01:35 PM

Hey Carp, I am so sorry brother! It is heartbreaking regardless of when the inevitable happens. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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sx moneypit · 04-21-2021, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Hotrodz

Hey Carp, I am so sorry brother! It is heartbreaking regardless of when the inevitable happens. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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My thoughts and prayers are with you too Bill.

JARblue · 04-21-2021, 02:16 PM

Sorry to hear brother

-ZS-Carpenter · 04-21-2021, 05:25 PM

Thanks guys. It's a lot to take in in a short while.

But now the

guano hit the fan. Just got the call I have to go toss the naught fun bag in a dumpster before grandma finds it

PSA: have someone other than your kids ready to go toss your old dildo collection before something happens

Rusty · 04-21-2021, 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by -ZS-Carpenter

Thanks guys. It's a lot to take in in a short while.

But now the

guano hit the fan. Just got the call I have to go toss the naught fun bag in a dumpster before grandma finds it

PSA: have someone other than your kids ready to go toss your old dildo collection before something happens

Think about JC..........when his kids find his porn stash.....and who knows what else........

jchammond · 04-21-2021, 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Rusty

Think about JC..........when his kids find his porn stash.....and who knows what else........

They’re in black & white

redondoaveb · 04-21-2021, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by jchammond

They’re in black & white

Your blow up dolls?

04-21-2021, 04:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
Rusty Ronin Samurai - Assassin Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Fayettenam,Pennsyltucky Age: 69 Posts: 35,421 Drives: 2011 Nismo GM 6M Rep Power: 2684438	Sorry hear this Bill. I figure with the type of cancer he has and the stage it's in. It wouldn't be long. Just hope he goes peacefully. When my first wifey was doing chemo. It would beat her up for over a week. It's not fun to watch a loved one go thought it. There is nothing you can do about it either. Your dad it not the the first one to try chemo and quit it. So please not blame him for not trying. Remember the good times you had with him. Those are the memories you will cherish the most. We will keep him in our prayer, along with your gramdma. If you need anything, even to let off steam. Let us know. __________________ 浪人 - 殺し屋 "The Difficult Anytime, The Impossible By Appointment Only" http://www.the370z.com/members-370z-...o-journal.html

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Hotrodz A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: NW, AZ Posts: 9,330 Drives: 10 Nissan 370z Nismo Rep Power: 2684385	Hey Carp, I am so sorry brother! It is heartbreaking regardless of when the inevitable happens. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sent from my SM-G965U using Tapatalk __________________ *Fast Intentions TT Installed and Tuned by Seb at SpecialtyZ 610whp 560tq:\|Fast Intentions 3" TT-TDX*\|SpecialtyZ/Fast Intentions 72 Row Oil Cooler\|SZ 6 Puck Clutch & Flywheel\|3GsCustoms\|Z1\|Wavetrac\|Hotchkis\|Whiteline \|Blitz\|Fortune Auto 500\|Fujimura\|SPL\|H&R\|TK\|TWM\|RPM Rollbar\|Sparco\|Next Level Performance\|TrackSpec\|AeroFlow Dynamics\|Pioneer\|

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