What did you do with your Z today IV

Pintsize725 · 07-02-2012, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by onzedge

Honestly, you may want to consider some counseling. It sounds like she has some serious control issues that should be addressed. Also, if you walk around on pins and needles, it would also help you to get an unbiased third party onvolved.

I am not being funny here -- relationships are tricky and even the best of them can get bumpy sometimes. Open-ness, honesty, clearly stating needs and expectations -- these all go along way in making the relationship what it should be.

Running over the pots is rally nothing, but if you get worked up about how to approach her with this, then I think you might want to talk with soemone as a couple.

Bucketlist2012 · 07-02-2012, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Pintsize725

Morning everyone...

I agree too..

I am trying to work some things out without counseling right now...

I took back my control, and that is not sitting well with the wife...
So I am not sure what I am doing..

But be honest..They are only flowers, and why were they where they were ?

Good luck bud, Marraige is not an easy thing sometimes..

JARblue · 07-02-2012, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by onzedge

I am not being funny here -- relationships are tricky and even the best of them can get bumpy sometimes. Open-ness, honesty, clearly stating needs and expectations -- these all go along way in making the relationship what it should be.

Amazing wisdom from the Onzedge. If you think she is going to be seriously pissed, then it seems to me there may be other things factoring into her reaction (not just the dead flowers).

My wife and I went through a rough patch in our marriage about four months ago. It took a number of breakdowns and arguments to finally sit down and discuss the fact that we were not on the same page. Over a few weeks, we both made serious efforts to get on the same page, which meant significant compromises for both of us. It was an tough but amazing transformation, and I am incredibly proud to say our disagreements since are less intense and nearly always end with us laughing that we were arguing over something so stupid.

RiCharlie · 07-02-2012, 03:09 PM

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Originally Posted by onzedge

Honestly, you may want to consider some counseling. It sounds like she has some serious control issues that should be addressed. Also, if you walk around on pins and needles, it would also help you to get an unbiased third party onvolved.

I am not being funny here -- relationships are tricky and even the best of them can get bumpy sometimes. Open-ness, honesty, clearly stating needs and expectations -- these all go along way in making the relationship what it should be.

Running over the pots is rally nothing, but if you get worked up about how to approach her with this, then I think you might want to talk with somemone as a couple.

I think you are taking this a bit too seriously..probably my fault for the way I made it sound to add a bit of drama....

JARblue · 07-02-2012, 09:28 AM

Happy Monday, y'all

Wife started her new job this morning. 4th of July is Wednesday. Sister is getting married next Saturday. Then the annual family beach trip to Port Aransas is next Sunday through Thursday (minus my sister who will be on her honeymoon and my parents who will be recovering from all the wedding stuff). At some point in that schedule, the new Acura ILX should arrive at the dealer. Fun times

*EDIT*
TOTALLY MISSED THAT THIS WAS MY 1000th POST. I am so not a

onzedge · 07-02-2012, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by JARblue

Happy Monday, y'all

Wife started her new job this morning. 4th of July is Wednesday. Sister is getting married next Saturday. Then the annual family beach trip to Port Aransas is next Sunday through Thursday (minus my sister who will be on her honeymoon and my parents who will be recovering from all the wedding stuff). At some point in that schedule, the new Acura ILX should arrive at the dealer. Fun times

JAR -- sounds like a busy week.

m4a1mustang · 07-02-2012, 09:35 AM

Blame it on the vandals, man.

m4a1mustang · 07-02-2012, 09:36 AM

Not being at work is really annoying. I am trapped at home.

JARblue · 07-02-2012, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by m4a1mustang

Not being at work is really annoying. I am trapped at home.

Storm related? edit* ah yes I see you are working from home because office power is out.

My Aunt and Uncle are in Fairfax County and still w/o power.

m4a1mustang · 07-02-2012, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by JARblue

Storm related? edit* ah yes I see you are working from home because office power is out.

My Aunt and Uncle are in Fairfax County and still w/o power.

I have been lucky and didn't lose power at all. Neither did my parents. But there are a ton of people in some of the older areas that have been without power all weekend.

kenchan · 07-02-2012, 10:07 AM

JAR- sounds like an exciting couple of weeks!

yah, i sent twm an email asking wth...

if they send me a new promocode i will post it here as well.

i would be pissed if some planter scratched my Z. i would take a sledge hammer and crack it in half, plant the plant with the planter into the garden with the other plantation. i hate plants (gardening) and non-edible birds

this is the only time i say to go fake. faux non-JDM plants and non-pooping birds ftw!

JARblue · 07-02-2012, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by onzedge

JAR -- sounds like a busy week.

Yup. Should be lots of fun though

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Originally Posted by m4a1mustang

I have been lucky and didn't lose power at all. Neither did my parents. But there are a ton of people in some of the older areas that have been without power all weekend.

Nice. I hate losing power at the house with all my electronics.

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Originally Posted by Bucketlist2012

Morning everyone...

I agree too..

Good luck bud, Marraige is not an easy thing sometimes..

Mr. Bucket. Best wishes working things out with your wife, as well.

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Originally Posted by kenchan

JAR- sounds like an exciting couple of weeks!

yah, i sent twm an email asking wth...

if they send me a new promocode i will post it here as well.

Looking forward to it

Much obliged

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Originally Posted by Pintsize725

Well I didn't want to get all graphic on here.

That never stopped you before

kenchan · 07-02-2012, 10:11 AM

i am glad my wife is not into plants. do we need more plants? no

shadoquad · 07-02-2012, 10:54 AM

Over the weekend, I did something fun and Z related. I blew up some of my Zdayz trip pictures to 18"X24" and got them framed. They're getting hung in my living room.

onzedge · 07-02-2012, 10:54 AM

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Originally Posted by shadoquad

Over the weekend, I did something fun and Z related. I blew up some of my Zdayz trip pictures to 18"X24" and got them framed. They're getting hung in my living room.

07-02-2012, 09:28 AM	#5 (permalink)
JARblue A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Austin, TX Age: 44 Posts: 36,450 Drives: 11 Z34, 98 E36 M3 Rep Power: 2684441	Happy Monday, y'all Wife started her new job this morning. 4th of July is Wednesday. Sister is getting married next Saturday. Then the annual family beach trip to Port Aransas is next Sunday through Thursday (minus my sister who will be on her honeymoon and my parents who will be recovering from all the wedding stuff). At some point in that schedule, the new Acura ILX should arrive at the dealer. Fun times EDIT TOTALLY MISSED THAT THIS WAS MY 1000th POST. I am so not a __________________ 2011 370Z 6MT Sport Gun Metallic \| ARC \| CJM \| Ecutek \| FI \| Fujimura \| R2C \| SPL \| Stillen \| TWM \| Z1 \| ZSpeed \| Last edited by JARblue; 07-02-2012 at 10:20 AM.

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m4a1mustang A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Northern VA Posts: 55,385 Drives: on two wheels Rep Power: 6963	Blame it on the vandals, man. __________________ - Steve Zs & Coffee - Saturdays at 10AM in Fairfax, VA and Columbia, MD (Click the banner!) LIKE us on Facebook!

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m4a1mustang A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Northern VA Posts: 55,385 Drives: on two wheels Rep Power: 6963	Not being at work is really annoying. I am trapped at home. __________________ - Steve Zs & Coffee - Saturdays at 10AM in Fairfax, VA and Columbia, MD (Click the banner!) LIKE us on Facebook!

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07-02-2012, 10:07 AM	#11 (permalink)
kenchan A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: N/A Posts: 76,801 Drives: N/A Rep Power: 141521	JAR- sounds like an exciting couple of weeks! yah, i sent twm an email asking wth... if they send me a new promocode i will post it here as well. i would be pissed if some planter scratched my Z. i would take a sledge hammer and crack it in half, plant the plant with the planter into the garden with the other plantation. i hate plants (gardening) and non-edible birds this is the only time i say to go fake. faux non-JDM plants and non-pooping birds ftw!

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07-02-2012, 10:54 AM	#14 (permalink)
shadoquad A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: . Posts: 42,608 Drives: . Rep Power: 3887	Over the weekend, I did something fun and Z related. I blew up some of my Zdayz trip pictures to 18"X24" and got them framed. They're getting hung in my living room.