wow sorry to hear that sophia... its gonna be tough as heck.. let me be the first to tell you... and dont part out the z if you dont have to... try to sell it im sure it will go fast..

Sweet offer and a class act here! +1,000,000 Rep (read as: I gave you +1 but would give you more if I could :) ).

This makes me a fan of separate finances. I always advised my friends to never buy anything they couldn't pay for 100% on their own if they dump their girl/she dumps them, and visa versa my female friends. I usually play the ref as I don't mess with the whole relationship game.

Yea I understand that now. In 10 years..I really had no worries, but things come up out of nowhere and this a lesson learned unfortunately.

Nice stuff + rep good sir

Sorry to hear Sophia….best of luck!

I'll give u $2000 plus paypal fees...


























jk! :tup: and rep'd Isamu for being a nice guy!

Yea I'm definitely a supporter of separate finances. I was engaged and about 8 months from the wedding when she broke it off. I was lucky we only had bought a car together so everything else was an easy separation. I could only imagine what a nightmare a divorce would have been.

^ its a complete nightmare... Im just lucky I have dogs and no kids... he wont fight me for the dogs haha

I have heard of it, actually, lol

Relationships are just ugly things, avoid.

werd, I coined the phrase "emotional tampon" back in the day for situations like that... being the mediator sucks, but it's the one thing i was really good at back in the day lol
I have actually gotten a few pms about it.. lol, but SophiaZ's got 1st dibs

I don't mess with relationships/dating/etc.
I am all about being successful at what I do, pumping iron, and enjoying life.
My friends use me as a 3rd party for advice as I can see the situation from the outside looking in.

I don't mind mediating at all. It re-affirms my choice of bachelorhood every time I help out :tiphat:

yup, I was always better at other peoples relationships then my own.. but im older now... and hopefully a little less fail at it LOL

The only way to make sure you don't have epic fail is to not mess with it.

To all those above.....
Never put full trust in someone ( no offense to those already married or in a serious relationship) but it only takes one slip for everything else to fail. Point being...always pay attention to your surroundings and the "signs"

Just have fun and see where shyt goes...been enjoying myself the last few months actually....I was stuck with the "husband" since I was 18. Doing things now I never had the chance to ;) It's all new and exciting, kinda