I guess one of the consequence of trading a 370z for another 370z contributed to the divorce.

No it wasnt actually..... he found comfort in someone else..... the divorce threat when I got the new Z, he already knew what he was gonna do.

07 and 08 350z still pretty good in my opinion. I think they can be had for cheap

Just to say it again, I found a good roommate and got a very nice appartment in a low crime area and ended up paying $300 a month + electric and internet for a place to live during college. It can be done.

I would suggest moving in with someone you like, but are not friends with. Either another woman roughly your age who is in a steady relationship, or moving in with a gay guy who is in a steady relationship (from what I hear, hard to find).

I say this, because as a girl, it will make life so much easier on you living with someone who isn't going to have all sorts of guys over, and who isn't going to become "interested" in you. Wierd formula I know, but it keeps the BS to a minimum. Laugh all you want, but it's solid.

Sorry about the Z, I divored my Z last fall. No car payment at all is a nice thing too. You can buy a perfectly nice reliable transportation appliance for well under $10k. You can get a nice late model Ford Taurus for $7k. Drive it for a year or two until you can get another fun car. Best of luck to you.

sry to hear about the situation I hope It all works out

Thanks again guys.
Call me crazy, but I'm torn between keeping the house or the Z. And there's no guarantee for either but I'm trying everything possible.
And as far as looking for a roommate...that's not really an option. All my friends are taken and have places of their own and I'm not sure if I'd trust a new person in my life being at my house and taking care of my dogs while I'm at work. But once again..I'm still trying to figure some stuff out. I'm staying positive about it all and that's all I can do and..........DRIVING THE Z LIKE I STOLE IT haha

I cannot afford the house on my own or the expensive car note...and living here in NJ..the laws are screwed up so if a short term marriage is terminated, there's no guarantee that the woman will get everything.. UNLESS she can pay for it all herself ( which I cannot)

And I just bought the car in October 2010..I doubt refinancing will make that big of a difference, if at all


AK...I won't be able to private sell unless I get rid of the negative equity first (Plan B)

I have a 91 300zx TT auto that i can let go for super cheap, she needs some TLC and a good home....

read TLC as: runs, but needs work to be pro, and super cheap as in 600-1000$

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:tup: That was an awesome thing to offer! :tiphat: Hope it works out!

my black zx was/is a project car... was going to pull the motor this summer and learn some stuff... but if i can help out a fellow Z'er, im all bout it.. :happydance:

So basically, it's your name on the dotted line, duel income covered it, he and you are done, responsibility reverts to the person who put their name on the dotted line, duel income is gone, you're up a creek.
Is this the summary?

That makes more sense and sucks. Sorry about your situation.

Talk to your bank/lender about missing a payment without penalty due to major life change. They might help you out with 1 payment. That will give you room to think.

Sorry about your situation. Considering that he seems to be in the wrong and the divorce would be his fault, you should be able to get something out of him. With that said, it's hard to start over being single again. Good luck and hope everything works out for you.