Bye bye Inky :(

ProfessorDave · 02-28-2011, 07:50 PM

I have some advice Sophia. I need you to listen...

Whatever you do...

Do NOT...

Buy a....

Mitsubishi Eclipse!

kenchan · 02-28-2011, 07:51 PM

SmoothZ · 02-28-2011, 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SophiaZ

Either which way I will still be in the Z community and will either have a 350z or maybe a 4WD car( any suggestions?!) And no smart azz comments please...this is not a good time thanks

Nothing wrong with a nicely modded and clean 350Z. I think you'll be happy with the 07 or 08.

Good luck.

nicknick · 02-28-2011, 08:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DrEvil

Sorry to hear that. Get a great lawyer and make the soon to be ex pay for the Z.
That's the least he can do.Love the color and the fangs. (could that be a metaphor?)

People, do we even know their situation, no, so stop making ridiculous comments like "make the soon to be ex pay". for all we know Sophia may be to blame.

Lets just stay neutral and offer car advice.

frost · 02-28-2011, 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicknick

People, do we even know their situation, no, so stop making ridiculous comments like "make the soon to be ex pay". for all we know Sophia may be to blame.

Lets just stay neutral and offer car advice.

SmoothZ · 02-28-2011, 08:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicknick

People, do we even know their situation, no, so stop making ridiculous comments like "make the soon to be ex pay". for all we know Sophia may be to blame.

Lets just stay neutral and offer car advice.

SophiaZ · 02-28-2011, 11:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LinPark

I'm betting you got the dogs and the Z after you got married .. a woman with dogs and a Z don't need no man!

I wouldn't wish what you are going through on anyone - I've had quite a few friends go through it recently and it's never pretty. Hang in there and rely on your good friends!

I'd vote for a well cared for, used Z as a replacement.

I actually got the first dog when I moved in, second dog was a wedding girft to myself haha and the third pup I got after 2 yrs married. One each relationship stage... and than got rid of the third dog over divorce

To everyones question... Id be comfortable with a $300 mo payment. And Im only getting a one bedroom aprtment so I can downsize to a studio with 2 dogs and all my stuff. Im gonna be paying an arm and a leg for it just to stay local.

SophiaZ · 02-28-2011, 11:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nicknick

People, do we even know their situation, no, so stop making ridiculous comments like "make the soon to be ex pay". for all we know Sophia may be to blame.

Lets just stay neutral and offer car advice.

I agree... but I wasnt to blame for this.... Which is why Im trying to get him to atleast handle the car payments

Trips · 02-28-2011, 11:46 PM

Sorry to hear about your situation, and wish you all the best in whatever you decide to do.

SkyZ · 03-01-2011, 12:47 AM

i know this might not be taken too well, but how about considering a cheap, reliable beater until you get back on your feet. Save on those 300/month car payments and then come back to the 370z community in full force? Besides the 370z will be a bit cheaper as well. Just throwin ideas out there. Sorry to hear about your troubles.

ImportConvert · 03-01-2011, 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SophiaZ

Well, time has come for me to let my Z go (yes it's only been 5 months of ownership.) Going thru a divorce is very difficult and I won't be able to have a $600+ car payment with affording an apartment on my own( yes..just bought a new house 8 months ago) I can't say when exactly I must let Inky go, but it will most likely be within 3 months or so unless I can get $40,000 out of the azzhole husband to pay off my loan. Either which way I will still be in the Z community and will either have a 350z or maybe a 4WD car( any suggestions?!) And no smart azz comments please...this is not a good time thanks

Well, since you aren't going to tell the whole story and he isn't here to tell his...(although I am VERY curious how the woman lost the house and the car and the man paid for nothing if its all "his fault", considering how the court system USUALLY works...)

Anyway, try finding a cheaper appartment. I shopped around until I found a GREAT appartment for peanuts. You just look around and I bet you can cut a couple hundred off rent without sacrificing living conditions. Or rent a house. Or get a roommate.

Can you re-finance the car for a longer time frame?

If you have a good car and you like it and it has been reliable for you, try to hang onto her!

ImportConvert · 03-01-2011, 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ProfessorDave

I have some advice Sophia. I need you to listen...

Whatever you do...

Do NOT...

Buy a....

Mitsubishi Eclipse!

Or a G20, lmao

AK370Z · 03-01-2011, 01:37 AM

I'm VERY sorry to hear this Sophia

. As many said, constant browsing on daily newspaper or rent.com (or few other cool sites) will lend you a nice apartment for really cheap! As for car, you can let it go. It's probably the best idea. Get situated first. Then, you can always buy another Z sometime down the line. If you need anything or help, feel free to let me know.

INKY will be missed!

Hopefully we can find a good home from one of the forum member. Did you list it in the for sale section?

370zproject · 03-01-2011, 02:00 AM

Nissanboy · 03-01-2011, 02:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PapoZalsa

I know it sucks getting divorce, sorry about that. However you can try to refinance your car to a lower rate and payments.

I have refinance my car three times within a year, from a 6.5% APR to a 3.25% APR now.

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SkyZ Enthusiast Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 382 Drives: 09 370z PG M6 Rep Power: 15	i know this might not be taken too well, but how about considering a cheap, reliable beater until you get back on your feet. Save on those 300/month car payments and then come back to the 370z community in full force? Besides the 370z will be a bit cheaper as well. Just throwin ideas out there. Sorry to hear about your troubles.