Bye bye Inky :(

PapoZalsa · 02-28-2011, 03:09 PM

I know it sucks getting divorce, sorry about that. However you can try to refinance your car to a lower rate and payments.

I have refinance my car three times within a year, from a 6.5% APR to a 3.25% APR now.

Ron · 02-28-2011, 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PapoZalsa

I know it sucks getting divorce, sorry about that. However you can try to refinance your car to a lower rate and payments.

I have refinance my car three times within a year, from a 6.5% APR to a 3.25% APR now.

this!

sonic370 · 02-28-2011, 07:09 PM

sorry to here about that. been there done that. depending on the situation
it will get better. and when your back on your feet there will be plenty of z's
to choose from............

Nissanboy · 03-01-2011, 02:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PapoZalsa

I know it sucks getting divorce, sorry about that. However you can try to refinance your car to a lower rate and payments.

I have refinance my car three times within a year, from a 6.5% APR to a 3.25% APR now.

Red__Zed · 02-28-2011, 04:17 PM

Sorry to hear you've got to let the car go.

VCuomo · 02-28-2011, 06:53 PM

Sorry about your situation.

Of course you know why divorces are so expensive, don't you?

Because they're worth it!

ProfessorDave · 02-28-2011, 07:50 PM

I have some advice Sophia. I need you to listen...

Whatever you do...

Do NOT...

Buy a....

Mitsubishi Eclipse!

ImportConvert · 03-01-2011, 12:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ProfessorDave

I have some advice Sophia. I need you to listen...

Whatever you do...

Do NOT...

Buy a....

Mitsubishi Eclipse!

Or a G20, lmao

kenchan · 02-28-2011, 07:51 PM

SmoothZ · 02-28-2011, 07:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SophiaZ

Either which way I will still be in the Z community and will either have a 350z or maybe a 4WD car( any suggestions?!) And no smart azz comments please...this is not a good time thanks

Nothing wrong with a nicely modded and clean 350Z. I think you'll be happy with the 07 or 08.

Good luck.

Trips · 02-28-2011, 11:46 PM

Sorry to hear about your situation, and wish you all the best in whatever you decide to do.

SkyZ · 03-01-2011, 12:47 AM

i know this might not be taken too well, but how about considering a cheap, reliable beater until you get back on your feet. Save on those 300/month car payments and then come back to the 370z community in full force? Besides the 370z will be a bit cheaper as well. Just throwin ideas out there. Sorry to hear about your troubles.

ImportConvert · 03-01-2011, 12:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SophiaZ

Well, time has come for me to let my Z go (yes it's only been 5 months of ownership.) Going thru a divorce is very difficult and I won't be able to have a $600+ car payment with affording an apartment on my own( yes..just bought a new house 8 months ago) I can't say when exactly I must let Inky go, but it will most likely be within 3 months or so unless I can get $40,000 out of the azzhole husband to pay off my loan. Either which way I will still be in the Z community and will either have a 350z or maybe a 4WD car( any suggestions?!) And no smart azz comments please...this is not a good time thanks

Well, since you aren't going to tell the whole story and he isn't here to tell his...(although I am VERY curious how the woman lost the house and the car and the man paid for nothing if its all "his fault", considering how the court system USUALLY works...)

Anyway, try finding a cheaper appartment. I shopped around until I found a GREAT appartment for peanuts. You just look around and I bet you can cut a couple hundred off rent without sacrificing living conditions. Or rent a house. Or get a roommate.

Can you re-finance the car for a longer time frame?

If you have a good car and you like it and it has been reliable for you, try to hang onto her!

SophiaZ · 03-02-2011, 04:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ImportConvert

Well, since you aren't going to tell the whole story and he isn't here to tell his...(although I am VERY curious how the woman lost the house and the car and the man paid for nothing if its all "his fault", considering how the court system USUALLY works...)

Can you re-finance the car for a longer time frame?

I cannot afford the house on my own or the expensive car note...and living here in NJ..the laws are screwed up so if a short term marriage is terminated, there's no guarantee that the woman will get everything.. UNLESS she can pay for it all herself ( which I cannot)

And I just bought the car in October 2010..I doubt refinancing will make that big of a difference, if at all

AK...I won't be able to private sell unless I get rid of the negative equity first (Plan B)

ImportConvert · 03-02-2011, 08:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SophiaZ

I cannot afford the house on my own or the expensive car note...and living here in NJ..the laws are screwed up so if a short term marriage is terminated, there's no guarantee that the woman will get everything.. UNLESS she can pay for it all herself ( which I cannot)

And I just bought the car in October 2010..I doubt refinancing will make that big of a difference, if at all

AK...I won't be able to private sell unless I get rid of the negative equity first (Plan B)

So basically, it's your name on the dotted line, duel income covered it, he and you are done, responsibility reverts to the person who put their name on the dotted line, duel income is gone, you're up a creek.
Is this the summary?

That makes more sense and sucks. Sorry about your situation.

Talk to your bank/lender about missing a payment without penalty due to major life change. They might help you out with 1 payment. That will give you room to think.

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sonic370 A True Z Fanatic Join Date: May 2010 Location: Orange Texas Posts: 1,574 Drives: 09 370Z Sports PGK Rep Power: 19	sorry to here about that. been there done that. depending on the situation it will get better. and when your back on your feet there will be plenty of z's to choose from............

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Red__Zed A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: window seat Posts: 28,940 Drives: Mostly on two wheels Rep Power: 121	Sorry to hear you've got to let the car go.

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SkyZ Enthusiast Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 382 Drives: 09 370z PG M6 Rep Power: 17	i know this might not be taken too well, but how about considering a cheap, reliable beater until you get back on your feet. Save on those 300/month car payments and then come back to the 370z community in full force? Besides the 370z will be a bit cheaper as well. Just throwin ideas out there. Sorry to hear about your troubles.