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A good friend and old bar regular of mine is going to die tomorrow. He is 68 years old and is in stage IV congestive heart failure and has made

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Old 10-13-2014, 07:35 PM   #1 (permalink)
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A good friend and old bar regular of mine is going to die tomorrow. He is 68 years old and is in stage IV congestive heart failure and has made a conscious choice not to pursue further treatment. The machines that are assisting his breathing will be turned off tomorrow at 4pm and I will be there until whenever.

So that's sad and all but that's not the point of this story. So Dennis mentioned to me a couple times that he "used to race cars" when he was younger" but never really went into detail.

Turns out, this is him:
Dennis Brown (USA) - Racing Sports Cars

So yeah, he wasn't a world beater but this was a guy who raced a Porsche 718 RS 61 Spyder in the Watkins Glen Grand Prix in 1965. How f'ing cool is that? He also raced an Austin-Healey 100m, a "Kelly Special" Porsche (what is this) an Elva and an Abarth Dumila (no idea what this is either).

So cheers Dennis. I am sorry I can't get the Speed network in your shitty hospital room or bring you a steak, beer and cigar (because the nurses won't let me).
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I asked him today if he really drove a Porsche 718 on the track and he did the "pistol finger thing" and then flipped me off. I'm going to assume that was a yes (he can't talk).

Edit: Apparently, I'm told there are pictures of most of the races. I'm asking to be able to photograph them.
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This is heartbreaking. Let me know if there is anything I can do. I have all day.
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Ah there's nothing you can do but thank you for offering. That's very kind of you. There will be others there with him when this all happens. I am so bad at this stuff
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Your even showing you care means you're handling it better than many. I'm sorry you are losing a friend. I'm sorry his family is losing a loved one. If I could, I'd smuggle a steak in to him, or whatever he wanted, just because he deserves to be happy in his last hours.
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Sorry to hear about your friend. It sounds like he had an interesting life.

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... I am sorry I can't get the Speed network in your shitty hospital room or bring you a steak, beer and cigar (because the nurses won't let me).
I think I'd go ahead and get him that steak and beer. Sneak it in if you have to, but you shouldn't have to. It would be pretty sh!tty of the hospital to deny him a last meal.
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Give the man what he deserves !! And be thankful for knowing such a cool guy !
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Update: the owner of the local outback has sneaked in a giant burger and I have beer coming.


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Girlfriend sneaked the beer outside the ICU and we put them under my jacket and brought the assortment in. Showed Dennis and he looks and me and goes "**** man, I've been kicked out of everywhere but you are going to get me kicked out of a hospital". They turned off the machines and he woke right up, had a sip of beer and started going to town on a lemon Italian ice. I'm gonna go get dinner and go back but last I saw he was bitching about having Bravo on TV and no ESPN. His first words to me when they took out the breathing tubes (swear to Christ) was "how's the car?" Dennis is a good dude


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Should also mention that his super Christian friends did not approve of burger or beer. I give zero *****. Not a single **** do I give


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I don't think God will mind a sip of beer for goodness sakes. The guy is living his last hours.

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Enjoy the time you have left with him.
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Alright I'm headed home. Dennis has apparently decided he'd rather watch the caps lose and bitch about the fact that he's out of lemon Italian ices than embrace the great beyond. Love this dude so much. Told him I'd be back tomorrow (but the bat phone is active in case anything changes)


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