How bad is it to be dumped by text?

StLRedrider · 06-26-2009, 10:12 PM

To make a long story short, i asked one of my customers/neighbor 6 or 7 houses down from me out for a bite to eat a couple of weeks ago. We went to dinner everything was great, good conversation ext.. She told me she wanted to go out again the following saturday, sounded great. Two days later she text me saying we had better remain friends

and so fourth. She text me back 5 minutes later saying how she really wants to go out again (bla bla) but. Why couldn't she have just called me? I'm still in the stone age, no texting here, never found a need for it.

nogoodname · 06-26-2009, 10:14 PM

maybe she sent it to you by mistake...lol

frost · 06-26-2009, 10:14 PM

That stuff is lame. People lack guts to do what's right, so they hide behind text.

nogoodname · 06-26-2009, 10:16 PM

she should of sent a registered mail if she wanted to texted you

06-26-2009, 10:16 PM

pics of girl?

frost · 06-26-2009, 10:17 PM

Run dude. If she comes back and wants to go out and whatnot, just say no. It's easy to spot when a chick is a ton of baggage.

nogoodname · 06-26-2009, 10:17 PM

we need pics to evaluate the case......and...wow..only 6 houses down and could not even walk and talk to you....

Anatoray · 06-26-2009, 10:21 PM

In this day and age, some adjusting is needed, as texting becomes more and more common. I know my last gf would text me messages about looking forward to dinner or some other plan because she was at work or in class at the time. Is it possible that she was in a situation like work that wouldn't have allowed a call at that moment? Even so though, the conflicting messages is reason for alarm, and requires a real conversation.

StLRedrider · 06-26-2009, 10:21 PM

I'll get some, she walks her dog up and down the street. might take a day or two. For 39 she is preety bangin.

nogoodname · 06-26-2009, 10:22 PM

Anatoray, those are normal texts..like meet me here..or how's it going....not breaking a relationship..lol

StLRedrider · 06-26-2009, 10:25 PM

I'm done with it, it was my first date in over 8.5 years. I had fun for beeing out of the dating scene for so long.

nogoodname · 06-26-2009, 10:29 PM

at least try it again and give her a shot...maybe she feels uncomfortable dating...or something

StLRedrider · 06-26-2009, 10:29 PM

Not mixing business with pleasure anymore.

frost · 06-26-2009, 10:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nogoodname007

at least try it again and give her a shot...maybe she feels uncomfortable dating...or something

Naw, shes got something else going on.

cave vulture · 06-26-2009, 10:30 PM

Don't feel too bad, when my ex-wife of 25 years moved out, she didn't even leave a note. lol

06-26-2009, 10:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
StLRedrider A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: St.louis,Mo Posts: 17,755 Drives: O9Sprt/Touring,p-51 Rep Power: 60	How bad is it to be dumped by text? To make a long story short, i asked one of my customers/neighbor 6 or 7 houses down from me out for a bite to eat a couple of weeks ago. We went to dinner everything was great, good conversation ext.. She told me she wanted to go out again the following saturday, sounded great. Two days later she text me saying we had better remain friends and so fourth. She text me back 5 minutes later saying how she really wants to go out again (bla bla) but. Why couldn't she have just called me? I'm still in the stone age, no texting here, never found a need for it. __________________ Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today J.Dean

06-26-2009, 10:21 PM	#9 (permalink)
StLRedrider A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: St.louis,Mo Posts: 17,755 Drives: O9Sprt/Touring,p-51 Rep Power: 60	I'll get some, she walks her dog up and down the street. might take a day or two. For 39 she is preety bangin. __________________ Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today J.Dean

06-26-2009, 10:25 PM	#11 (permalink)
StLRedrider A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: St.louis,Mo Posts: 17,755 Drives: O9Sprt/Touring,p-51 Rep Power: 60	I'm done with it, it was my first date in over 8.5 years. I had fun for beeing out of the dating scene for so long. __________________ Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today J.Dean

06-26-2009, 10:29 PM	#13 (permalink)
StLRedrider A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: St.louis,Mo Posts: 17,755 Drives: O9Sprt/Touring,p-51 Rep Power: 60	Not mixing business with pleasure anymore. __________________ Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today J.Dean

06-26-2009, 10:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
nogoodname Lifetime Premium Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Montreal Posts: 22,357 Drives: E46 M3 Rep Power: 1764	maybe she sent it to you by mistake...lol

06-26-2009, 10:14 PM	#3 (permalink)
frost Retired admin Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Winterfell Posts: 106,613 Drives: Your Wife Crazy Rep Power: 0	That stuff is lame. People lack guts to do what's right, so they hide behind text.

06-26-2009, 10:16 PM	#4 (permalink)
nogoodname Lifetime Premium Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Montreal Posts: 22,357 Drives: E46 M3 Rep Power: 1764	she should of sent a registered mail if she wanted to texted you

06-26-2009, 10:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
blue660r01 Guest Posts: n/a	pics of girl?

06-26-2009, 10:17 PM	#6 (permalink)
frost Retired admin Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Winterfell Posts: 106,613 Drives: Your Wife Crazy Rep Power: 0	Run dude. If she comes back and wants to go out and whatnot, just say no. It's easy to spot when a chick is a ton of baggage.

06-26-2009, 10:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
nogoodname Lifetime Premium Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Montreal Posts: 22,357 Drives: E46 M3 Rep Power: 1764	we need pics to evaluate the case......and...wow..only 6 houses down and could not even walk and talk to you....

06-26-2009, 10:21 PM	#8 (permalink)
Anatoray Track Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Kentucky Posts: 794 Drives: 09 BLK 370Z Rep Power: 17	In this day and age, some adjusting is needed, as texting becomes more and more common. I know my last gf would text me messages about looking forward to dinner or some other plan because she was at work or in class at the time. Is it possible that she was in a situation like work that wouldn't have allowed a call at that moment? Even so though, the conflicting messages is reason for alarm, and requires a real conversation.

06-26-2009, 10:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
nogoodname Lifetime Premium Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Montreal Posts: 22,357 Drives: E46 M3 Rep Power: 1764	Anatoray, those are normal texts..like meet me here..or how's it going....not breaking a relationship..lol

06-26-2009, 10:29 PM	#12 (permalink)
nogoodname Lifetime Premium Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Montreal Posts: 22,357 Drives: E46 M3 Rep Power: 1764	at least try it again and give her a shot...maybe she feels uncomfortable dating...or something

06-26-2009, 10:30 PM	#15 (permalink)
cave vulture Enthusiast Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: pennsylvania Posts: 427 Drives: 370z tour,sport,auto Rep Power: 15	Don't feel too bad, when my ex-wife of 25 years moved out, she didn't even leave a note. lol