Age Gap

Nismoracer · 06-08-2011, 01:57 PM

Whats the limit? Friend of mine seems to really hit it off w this girl he met. She seems pretty cool. He's my age 38 but looks younger like 25 or something cuz thats what people guess all the time. I have the same prob i look younger. Not really a prob. Shes 22. Looks bout that age, mid 20's. I tell him so what. As long as you guys are happy so what. Our other friend disagrees and says thats too much of a gap. But we think hes being biased cuz he was the first to jump in and was talking to her and her friends. So what is too much?

ChrisSlicks · 06-08-2011, 02:03 PM

It's the age of the person's maturity that matters, not really the physical so much. One of my racing buddies is 68 and his girlfriend is 33, more power to him I say.

SPOHN · 06-08-2011, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ChrisSlicks

It's the age of the person's maturity that matters, not really the physical so much. One of my racing buddies is 68 and his girlfriend is 33, more power to him I say.

90 ST · 10-31-2011, 11:33 AM

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Originally Posted by ChrisSlicks

It's the age of the person's maturity that matters, not really the physical so much. One of my racing buddies is 68 and his girlfriend is 33, more power to him I say.

Yep. It's all about the maturity level.
My buddy is 35 and he just got married to a 23 yr old, but she has no people skills, and is very naive and immature, i really don't think it will last.

Masa · 10-31-2011, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by 90 ST

Yep. It's all about the maturity level.
married to a 23 yr old, but she has no people skills, and is very naive and immature

That's because:

Age 18~25: Young and dumb, no idea what they want. Feeling of entitlement and princess mentality. Know they look good and use it to their advantage.

Age: 26-28: Still attractive and young. Now have somewhat of an idea of what they want. Still have feelings of entitlement and princess mentality.

Age 29: Realize they are getting older, not as pretty as they were 10 years ago. Standards have now become realistic. This age is usually when they take a break from dating for a year to "find" themselves.

Age 30+: Know what they want. No longer playing games. Mature and have experience. Ready to start a family before biological clock finally stops ticking.

Gungrave · 10-31-2011, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Masa

That's because:

Age 18~25: Young and dumb, no idea what they want. Feeling of entitlement and princess mentality. Know they look good and use it to their advantage.

Age: 26-28: Still attractive and young. Now have somewhat of an idea of what they want. Still have feelings of entitlement and princess mentality.

Age 29: Realize they are getting older, not as pretty as they were 10 years ago. Standards have now become realistic. This age is usually when they take a break from dating for a year to "find" themselves.

Age 30+: Know what they want. No longer playing games. Mature and have experience. Ready to start a family before biological clock finally stops ticking.

This is actually pretty true lol. But then again I've seen several once they hit 30 they turn into cougars lol. I guess they are just curious if they still have it or not.

nmjaxx9 · 11-01-2011, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Gungrave

This is actually pretty true lol. But then again I've seen several once they hit 30 they turn into cougars lol. I guess they are just curious if they still have it or not.

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m4a1mustang · 06-08-2011, 02:08 PM

I agree. Depends on maturity.

A friend of mine was dating a 25 year old when she was in her 30s. They broke up because he wasn't mature enough.

Now she's in her 40s, they started dating again by chance, and are now engaged...

RandyD · 06-08-2011, 03:39 PM

younger age = older age / 2 + 7

Nismoracer · 06-08-2011, 03:52 PM

What is that suppose to mean? Both of the above dont even fall into that formula and they seem happy. 38/2 : 19+7 = 26 shes 22 4 yr diff. Now would her parents age figured in mean something they r about 10yrs older than him...

somatic · 10-24-2011, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by RandyD

younger age = older age / 2 + 7

lol i was 21 and my fiance was 17
21/2=10.5+7=17.5

nmjaxx9 · 10-24-2011, 10:16 PM

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Originally Posted by somatic

lol i was 21 and my fiance was 17
21/2=10.5+7=17.5

Anyways look at hugh hefner, hes old and has had girlfriends young enough to be his grandaughter

, but yeah p***y is p***y, young old, ehh as long its not smelly, hairy,or STD stricken im good, and as far as Gf's go as long as they aren't underage and have a phat booty.

Devan370z · 11-10-2011, 03:17 PM

My brother and I both date younger girls and this equation worked out to the exact age of out girlfriends, i think it might be genius.

Cmike2780 · 06-08-2011, 04:34 PM

Personally, my window is usually 2 years over, 10 years younger. It depends on the person, but people usually want different things at say 21 vs. 31. Don't get me wrong, younger chicks are fun, but those relationships tend to fizzle out rather quickly. Then again you only live once (that I know of). If you think about it, it's kind of stupid to set limits on who you end up with based on the arbitrary rotation of the Earth. Anyway, Life's too short for rules.... unless of course she's under 17, that'll get you 3-7.

2ndChance · 06-08-2011, 04:38 PM

I dated a 12 years old when I was 17.

And it seemed like I was the 12 year old and she the 17.

You guys are right, it all depends on the maturity.

06-08-2011, 01:57 PM	#1 (permalink)
Nismoracer Enthusiast Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Earth Posts: 420 Drives: 10 Nismo Rep Power: 15	Age Gap Whats the limit? Friend of mine seems to really hit it off w this girl he met. She seems pretty cool. He's my age 38 but looks younger like 25 or something cuz thats what people guess all the time. I have the same prob i look younger. Not really a prob. Shes 22. Looks bout that age, mid 20's. I tell him so what. As long as you guys are happy so what. Our other friend disagrees and says thats too much of a gap. But we think hes being biased cuz he was the first to jump in and was talking to her and her friends. So what is too much?

06-08-2011, 02:03 PM	#2 (permalink)
ChrisSlicks A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: North East Posts: 6,203 Drives: 09 370Z Sport M6 Rep Power: 654	It's the age of the person's maturity that matters, not really the physical so much. One of my racing buddies is 68 and his girlfriend is 33, more power to him I say. __________________ Hotchkis ARB \| Stillen CAI \| Art Pipes \| Berk CBE \| Stillen AP Racing Brakes \| AE Performance Oil Cooler \| BC Racing ER Coilovers \| Doran Control Arms

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m4a1mustang A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Northern VA Posts: 55,385 Drives: on two wheels Rep Power: 6963	I agree. Depends on maturity. A friend of mine was dating a 25 year old when she was in her 30s. They broke up because he wasn't mature enough. Now she's in her 40s, they started dating again by chance, and are now engaged... __________________ - Steve Zs & Coffee - Saturdays at 10AM in Fairfax, VA and Columbia, MD (Click the banner!) LIKE us on Facebook!

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Cmike2780 A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Long Island Posts: 5,059 Drives: slowwww Rep Power: 30	Personally, my window is usually 2 years over, 10 years younger. It depends on the person, but people usually want different things at say 21 vs. 31. Don't get me wrong, younger chicks are fun, but those relationships tend to fizzle out rather quickly. Then again you only live once (that I know of). If you think about it, it's kind of stupid to set limits on who you end up with based on the arbitrary rotation of the Earth. Anyway, Life's too short for rules.... unless of course she's under 17, that'll get you 3-7. __________________ [09][MB][6-Spd MT][Touring][Stillen Gen III][K&N][Borla CBE][Evo-R] [ArchitTEK Photography]

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RandyD A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Potomac Falls, VA Posts: 2,977 Drives: 2010 370z 7AT Roadst Rep Power: 21	younger age = older age / 2 + 7

06-08-2011, 03:52 PM	#10 (permalink)
Nismoracer Enthusiast Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Earth Posts: 420 Drives: 10 Nismo Rep Power: 15	What is that suppose to mean? Both of the above dont even fall into that formula and they seem happy. 38/2 : 19+7 = 26 shes 22 4 yr diff. Now would her parents age figured in mean something they r about 10yrs older than him...

11-10-2011, 03:17 PM	#13 (permalink)
Devan370z Base Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2 Drives: 2009 370z Blue 6spd Rep Power: 14	My brother and I both date younger girls and this equation worked out to the exact age of out girlfriends, i think it might be genius.

06-08-2011, 04:38 PM	#15 (permalink)
2ndChance Base Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Panama Posts: 240 Drives: like he stole it Rep Power: 200	I dated a 12 years old when I was 17. And it seemed like I was the 12 year old and she the 17. You guys are right, it all depends on the maturity.