Bye bye Inky :(

ImportConvert · 03-03-2011, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

To all those above.....
Never put full trust in someone ( no offense to those already married or in a serious relationship) but it only takes one slip for everything else to fail. Point being...always pay attention to your surroundings and the "signs"

Just have fun and see where shyt goes...been enjoying myself the last few months actually....I was stuck with the "husband" since I was 18. Doing things now I never had the chance to

It's all new and exciting, kinda

Exactly. Never give anyone anything you aren't just fine without, because without fail you will be fleeced.

Polite to everyone, nice to a select few, trusting of none.

I have never regretted my life philosophy.

I have watched couples with 4 decades of marriage behind them just walk away from each other before. All that "We've been happily married for 20 years!" stuff just makes me smile. Of course, I don't dog on married people, just like I don't dog on people who gamble. Everyone has something they enjoy that is hazardous to their health. So I politely smile and hope things go well.

SophiaZ · 03-03-2011, 05:05 AM

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

Exactly. Never give anyone anything you aren't just fine without, because without fail you will be fleeced.

Polite to everyone, nice to a select few, trusting of none.

I have never regretted my life philosophy.

I have watched couples with 4 decades of marriage behind them just walk away from each other before. All that "We've been happily married for 20 years!" stuff just makes me smile. Of course, I don't dog on married people, just like I don't dog on people who gamble. Everyone has something they enjoy that is hazardous to their health. So I politely smile and hope things go well.

Agreed.
Give me my Coronas, Bacardi Razz and pack or Newports...and my dogs and I'm a happy little camper LOL

But seriously tho... people change their minds every day about something. Always be careful in choices and try to make the right ones. Other than that..live life to the fullest. Never know what life'll bring tomorrow

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

To all those above.....
Never put full trust in someone ( no offense to those already married or in a serious relationship) but it only takes one slip for everything else to fail. Point being...always pay attention to your surroundings and the "signs"

Just have fun and see where shyt goes...been enjoying myself the last few months actually....I was stuck with the "husband" since I was 18. Doing things now I never had the chance to

It's all new and exciting, kinda

lol... I can only imagine... oh, to be 22 again

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 05:25 AM

that, and some things work for others that don't for others..

one mans trash is anothers treasure... fo sho

SophiaZ · 03-03-2011, 05:34 AM

To the world u may be one person, but to one person... you may be the world

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

To the world u may be one person, but to one person... you may be the world

ohh look at you being all soft hearted and sweet! lol

man, i wish you were around at night i get so bored.. lol

SophiaZ · 03-03-2011, 07:17 AM

I AM sweet lol and
Ditto haha

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by SophiaZ

I AM sweet lol and
Ditto haha

start postin.. or something! I work mids.. and we can't bring our own electronic devices and **** so this is what i have to keep me entertained

shadoquad · 03-03-2011, 08:39 AM

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

Polite to everyone, nice to a select few, trusting of none.

No offense, but if you trust no one, then you'll never experience true friendship. Not in the "hey let's hang out" sense, but in the sense of having someone to rely on, even when the rest of the world thinks you're sh*t.

I've got a few friends like this, and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I'd also never betray their trust intentionally.

It's incredible to have people who will be there for you like that, and if you open yourself up to no one, you will never have that, or at least you'll take it for granted.

True, you're less likely to be hurt or betrayed if you keep everyone at a distance. But I wouldn't want to go through life like that. It's your philosophy, and if it suits you, then I'm happy for you. But it won't suit everyone. I wouldn't want to live my life like that. Not saying my way is better, just different.

Isamu · 03-03-2011, 08:57 AM

that's true... you can just be picky about who you let inside is all

LinPark · 03-03-2011, 09:10 AM

No offense here - I find it funny that people in a marriage would rely on the advice of someone who professes to not ever get married. Sounds like they are asking someone a question with the intent of getting the exact answer they are looking for.

No one ever said relationships are easy - they work for some people and they don't for others. I know some people who get married solely for the tax write off.

Mt Tam I am · 03-03-2011, 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by shadoquad

No offense, but if you trust no one, then you'll never experience true friendship. Not in the "hey let's hang out" sense, but in the sense of having someone to rely on, even when the rest of the world thinks you're sh*t.

I've got a few friends like this, and I wouldn't trade them for the world. I'd also never betray their trust intentionally.

It's incredible to have people who will be there for you like that, and if you open yourself up to no one, you will never have that, or at least you'll take it for granted.

True, you're less likely to be hurt or betrayed if you keep everyone at a distance. But I wouldn't want to go through life like that. It's your philosophy, and if it suits you, then I'm happy for you. But it won't suit everyone. I wouldn't want to live my life like that. Not saying my way is better, just different.

. Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. The pragmatism of, "I'll go it alone" sounds fine, but in practice, won't work for most. Without trust, you will limited in life. Mountain climbing, camping, hunting are safer with a buddy. Even hold the ladder requires trust.

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Originally Posted by ImportConvert

This makes me a fan of separate finances. I always advised my friends to never buy anything they couldn't pay for 100% on their own if they dump their girl/she dumps them, and visa versa my female friends. I usually play the ref as I don't mess with the whole relationship game.

Keeping your finances separate, as above, is excellent advise.

tsolin01 · 03-03-2011, 09:41 AM

It's like that movie, Whatever Works lol In the end, as long as you're happy with how you live your life, then that's all that matters. Life is too short to waste it on people that don't deserve your time and also on cars that suck lol

I'm the kind of person that values friendship and I think having a partner in life that you trust and that deep down truly cares about you is better than being alone. That may be tough to find these days but I think it's out there. Even then I think you always need to have an exit strategy in case things don't work out as planned.

One thing's for sure, no one's ever going to take away my car lol Eff that

TongMan · 03-03-2011, 09:54 AM

I've attended many weddings before and every time I hear "till death do you part" I always chuckle. Then people stare at me.

LinPark · 03-03-2011, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am

Without trust, you will limited in life. Mountain climbing, camping, hunting are safer with a buddy. Even hold the ladder requires trust.

To that I'll add removing the bolts from the stock catalytic converters!!!!!

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Isamu A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Minot ND Posts: 51,960 Drives: every day... Rep Power: 212	that's true... you can just be picky about who you let inside is all

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LinPark A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Columbus, OH Posts: 1,077 Drives: '17 Camaro 2SS A8 Rep Power: 23	No offense here - I find it funny that people in a marriage would rely on the advice of someone who professes to not ever get married. Sounds like they are asking someone a question with the intent of getting the exact answer they are looking for. No one ever said relationships are easy - they work for some people and they don't for others. I know some people who get married solely for the tax write off.

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TongMan A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NorCal Posts: 1,297 Drives: 2013 Nissan GTR Rep Power: 715	I've attended many weddings before and every time I hear "till death do you part" I always chuckle. Then people stare at me.