So here's the story of my life...

Originally Posted by kenchan

yep, but we're talking about a couple that's wanting kids and wat to do about welcoming the newborn without altering dad's lifestyle dramatically.

i haven't changed much before and after my kids were born, hobbywise. im actually spending more money on my hobby overall while keeping a good balance. like in a long relationship with your significant other, the solution is not to keep desires inside and just do wat you want when you can with a budget in mind... and get as much rest whenever you can.