What is wrong with society?

SouthArk370Z

No matter what you look like, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. No matter what your personality, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. No matter what your _____, there will be people who are not attracted to you because of it. There is no one-size-fits-all.

The flip side of that coin is that, no matter who/what you are, there are people that are attracted to that. Pick any characteristic you can think of a do a web search. All sorts of people prefer plus-size partners. All sorts of people prefer small breasts. All sorts of people prefer a dominant partner. And the list go on forever.

Helpful was in quotes because, no matter how helpful you think you are being, many people aren't going to like it. Especially when it is unsolicited.

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Chuck33079

The very fact a message was sent to correct someone's profile because you didn't like it was a bitchy move, regardless of how helpful you mistakenly thought you were being. It wasn't a good deed no matter how much time you spend nailing yourself to that cross. Ant then the arrogance required to come in here to give us some public service announcement about not being that guy is pretty unbelievable.

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LadyZ

Guess you see things differently and fall in line with the guy. I was merely trying to bring attention to something which may have been missed in the heat of the moment, as obviously it was written whilst emotional and annoyed. Considering that the point of a dating website is to attract others into a date, it would make most sense to write in a sensible manner, but that's just what I think. Unless he's trying to attract chicks who like that douchey attitude, then by all means more power to him and he's right on track.

And I didn't tell him to correct it, I merely offered a suggestion that he might want to take into consideration.

Agree to disagree, I suppose.

XiP

Unless they're asking for advice or your opinion you shouldn't mention anything unless they're a friend or someone you've known for a while. I think dating sites go both ways with the annoyance factor. When people list things they're looking for and you don't meet those requirements it makes you feel bad...

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LadyZ

I think that's the fundamental problem. People don't look past the words at the intentions of a person before passing judgement and deciding on a reaction.