Still think about my Ex-GF...

Bad Boy · 03-13-2015, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by FPenvy

I Couldnt help but laugh when I saw this.

Anyways, thanks to all of you for the advice.

Bad Boy · 03-13-2015, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Jordo!

(good and bad... life's a bit of a sine wave...)

Lol, I liked that mathematical reference.

Chuck33079 · 03-13-2015, 11:13 AM

The best thing you can do at your age is find a cougar. You'll learn a lot of things you can then use on chicks your age and look like a god. Plus, they don't want a relationship, marriage, kids, etc. They already did that.

Zoren 370 · 03-13-2015, 11:25 AM

Yeah once in awhile everybody experience this. There is no security and surety in this world. Its better now than later when others are already involved like kids.

Relationship is a struggle. Its a constant battle but it all worth it. Been married 14 years and still learning.

Time would heal...better ones is just around the corner. In 3 weeks time you wont even look for her. Cut everything or anyone would remind of you of her.
If you need to get out of town to make it easier.

I did that I even cut my cellphone so I wont be tempted to call her. Start dating just for the heck of it. Hang around friends who knows a little about her.
Cut all ties with anyone close to her. Healing is faster.

Zoren 370 · 03-13-2015, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Chuck33079

The best thing you can do at your age is find a cougar. You'll learn a lot of things you can then use on chicks your age and look like a god. Plus, they don't want a relationship, marriage, kids, etc. They already did that.

Hey Chuck I think there is a dating site for cougars!!
Has anyone tried it and hooked one?

Zbrah · 03-13-2015, 11:29 AM

Chuck33079 · 03-13-2015, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Zoren 370

Hey Chuck I think there is a dating site for cougars!!
Has anyone tried it and hooked one?

I always had better luck in bars, rather than online. However you find one, do it. It's completely impossible to mope around thinking about an ex when you're getting ****** six ways from Sunday by a 40 year old divorcee who can do magic tricks with her mouth and has no desire to hang around after she gets off.

DEpointfive0 · 03-13-2015, 11:50 AM

Chuck is right on point with his advice.

Turn into a whore, bang old broads

Addendum: Have the old broads buy you stuff, lol

Chuck33079 · 03-13-2015, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by DEpointfive0

Chuck is right on point with his advice.

Turn into a whore, bang old broads

Addendum: Have the old broads buy you stuff, lol

That's what you're supposed to do in your early twenties. Get all the whoring around out of your system so you're not stuck in your thirties with items on your list you still really want to try, but your wife/GF/SO isn't willing to do.

Honestly, do you really want your wife to be down with ATM? No. You just want to have that checked off the list before you're tied down.

DEpointfive0 · 03-13-2015, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Chuck33079

That's what you're supposed to do in your early twenties. Get all the whoring around out of your system so you're not stuck in your thirties with items on your list you still really want to try, but your wife/GF/SO isn't willing to do.

Honestly, do you really want your wife to be down with ATM? No. You just want to have that checked off the list before you're tied down.

LMAOOOOOOOOOO

I have no desire to see anyone ATM...

In any case... Chuck, you're on point.

Joker_J · 03-13-2015, 12:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Chuck33079

The best thing you can do at your age is find a cougar. You'll learn a lot of things you can then use on chicks your age and look like a god. Plus, they don't want a relationship, marriage, kids, etc. They already did that.

i need a sugga mommA HAHAHA

Joker_J · 03-13-2015, 12:07 PM

When I was 21, I didn't have the same issue but was depressed from a break-up and stayed home mainly in bed for almost a full week. After letting time do its thing, I was good to go, went on dates and looked back and was like, "I regret feeling like that and making my body feel that way." haha trust us!!!

MightyMouse13 · 03-13-2015, 01:35 PM

1) Do you lift weights?

1a- If the answer to question 1 is yes, lift more, squat deeper, enter a powerlifting meet, and become obsessed with being the strongest person on the planet.

1b- If the answer to question 1 is no, get some hair on your peaches and start lifting. It's impossible to think about your ex when you've got 2 or 3 worth of yourself loaded on your back and you're in the bottom of the hole on a squat with no spotter to save you.

I say this jokingly, but at the same time, finding something requiring physical exertion that you can be passionate about can really help to wash away a lot of problems. Like I said, it's hard to think about emotions when you're in fight or flight mode and your choices are sack up or get crushed.

jaybulls · 03-13-2015, 03:07 PM

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Originally Posted by MightyMouse13

1) Do you lift weights?

1a- If the answer to question 1 is yes, lift more, squat deeper, enter a powerlifting meet, and become obsessed with being the strongest person on the planet.

1b- If the answer to question 1 is no, get some hair on your peaches and start lifting. It's impossible to think about your ex when you've got 2 or 3 worth of yourself loaded on your back and you're in the bottom of the hole on a squat with no spotter to save you.

I say this jokingly, but at the same time, finding something requiring physical exertion that you can be passionate about can really help to wash away a lot of problems. Like I said, it's hard to think about emotions when you're in fight or flight mode and your choices are sack up or get crushed.

i like what mighty mo has said here; and thou i hadn't thought of his approach beforehand, i had thoughts of my own response...

being MUCH older than you, lad, and having been thru the "rapids" with even more turbulence w/marriage/divorce/chillrens...i can easily, sadly recall being in my 20's yout...

i was "lucky" to have born in the era of the best music of all time: the mid 60's to the late 80's...i thought of this immediately when i read of your sorrow...

long (songs) story short...we had songs back then that could help us grieve to/hold out hope for/and feel like we were kindred spirits listening to songs that had listenable heart-felt lyrics, melodies, choruses that had strings that tug at one's heart and honor an melancholy, sentimental, sensitive persona that enabled me to put my sorrow into poem/lyric perspective...

it awoken my creative ability and helped to encapsulate both the sorrow and the chance to say: i can do poetry...

Zbrah · 03-13-2015, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MightyMouse13

1) Do you lift weights?

1a- If the answer to question 1 is yes, lift more, squat deeper, enter a powerlifting meet, and become obsessed with being the strongest person on the planet.

1b- If the answer to question 1 is no, get some hair on your peaches and start lifting. It's impossible to think about your ex when you've got 2 or 3 worth of yourself loaded on your back and you're in the bottom of the hole on a squat with no spotter to save you.

I say this jokingly, but at the same time, finding something requiring physical exertion that you can be passionate about can really help to wash away a lot of problems. Like I said, it's hard to think about emotions when you're in fight or flight mode and your choices are sack up or get crushed.

I like you.

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DEpointfive0 Premium Member Bitches Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: SoCal Posts: 14,824 Drives: a lot Rep Power: 17151	Chuck is right on point with his advice. Turn into a whore, bang old broads Addendum: Have the old broads buy you stuff, lol Chuck33079, Zoren 370, Tadpole and 1 others like this. __________________ Do YOU want to know what/where I got my username from? ( Click to show/hide ) NSFW due to language:

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MightyMouse13 Base Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Tallahassee, FL Posts: 77 Drives: 09 Nissan 370z Mag B Rep Power: 10	1) Do you lift weights? 1a- If the answer to question 1 is yes, lift more, squat deeper, enter a powerlifting meet, and become obsessed with being the strongest person on the planet. 1b- If the answer to question 1 is no, get some hair on your peaches and start lifting. It's impossible to think about your ex when you've got 2 or 3 worth of yourself loaded on your back and you're in the bottom of the hole on a squat with no spotter to save you. I say this jokingly, but at the same time, finding something requiring physical exertion that you can be passionate about can really help to wash away a lot of problems. Like I said, it's hard to think about emotions when you're in fight or flight mode and your choices are sack up or get crushed. jaybulls and Zbrah like this.

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Zoren 370 A True Z Fanatic Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: FL Posts: 11,018 Drives: 11 Nissan 370 M6 Rep Power: 1913653	Yeah once in awhile everybody experience this. There is no security and surety in this world. Its better now than later when others are already involved like kids. Relationship is a struggle. Its a constant battle but it all worth it. Been married 14 years and still learning. Time would heal...better ones is just around the corner. In 3 weeks time you wont even look for her. Cut everything or anyone would remind of you of her. If you need to get out of town to make it easier. I did that I even cut my cellphone so I wont be tempted to call her. Start dating just for the heck of it. Hang around friends who knows a little about her. Cut all ties with anyone close to her. Healing is faster.

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Joker_J Track Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: The Ville, KY Posts: 576 Drives: 2014 NISSAN 370Z Rep Power: 12	When I was 21, I didn't have the same issue but was depressed from a break-up and stayed home mainly in bed for almost a full week. After letting time do its thing, I was good to go, went on dates and looked back and was like, "I regret feeling like that and making my body feel that way." haha trust us!!!