Originally Posted by bunk

Yeah. It's just been a crazy year. From his stroke, major blood clot in his brain, almost dying from infections, being partially paralyzed, it's really put things into perspective. My gf asked me yesterday what I wanted for xmas. That was really the first time I remembered that I was going to receive gifts also. I guess I'm growing up. Putting other peoples needs before yours is what this season should be about I think.