01-21-2014, 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted by ZRed
so what do you do when you meet another girl that you have chemistry with when you already have a gf? Its not that I don't have chemistry with the gf, but 5 years is along time together....and its the only real relationship I've had. Idk if I'm freaking out because she's the one, or because I feel trapt and I have another girl on the line. Both girls we can talk about anything and not feel akward....also girl #2 is about 30 lbs lighter so for the car it would help, but she has no real "Assets"...doesnt matter to much on that part. I'm just stuck I'm pretty sure im just being a coward and not wanting to get married like girl #1 is pushing for.
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Not judging or anything. Don't kid yourself, of course you're going to be attracted to other women. Every guy does, even when they're in a happy relationship. The difference between a douche and a man is self control.
It's okay to feel hesitant towards marriage, but after 5 years, you should know already. At the very least, you should have thought about the possibility. It's a waste of your time and hers if that's what she wants. If you're still numbering your girls and feel trapped, you're not ready for marriage. It's not looking good if you're still talking to other girls. You'd be starting a marriage with lies and that always ends in a mess. If you want to be with someone else, be with someone else. Your girlfriend deserves a guy she can trust. Would you feel okay if she was talking to some other dude with larger junk for example? Just say'n.
I guess my point is, whatever you do, don't cheat. You'll end up without a gf or end up with the girl that will always think you'll cheat on her...or you end up alone.
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Last edited by Cmike2780; 01-21-2014 at 09:31 AM.
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