Over 30 and still single, post here.

DIGItonium

Pretty sad. I bumped into at least 4 girls in the past couple of weeks who told me their recent dbag ex bf stories, and 2 of them have a kid.

#1 The youngest one. Guy wasn't so nice to her and he tried too hard to get lucky with her in the car. After a few days of hanging out he busted out those 3 words. She dropped him. (No kid)
#2 Some random girl I met who is close to my age and told me about the past couple of abusive relationships. She's battered. She almost had a kid.
#3 A friend of mine who went through a lot last year. Got preggo, but the guy she was with pretty much continued cheating on her. He makes no effort for the baby and makes lots of empty promises. She also found out he had another kid with someone else. SMH.
#4 A old friend who went through a similar ordeal. Difference here is that he owns up to it and at least spends time with his child.

I asked them one question, and their jaws dropped. I said "So are these the guys who are super charming when you first meet them, and completely change when they get what they wanted?" All said "Yes!"

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