Over 30 and still single, post here.

Originally Posted by blackcherry20

Start with something small that strikes your fancy and decorate around that. could be as simple as a throw pillow, or a framed photo or painting...anything...just add stuff as you come across it. get a frined to help you-somebody who has a cool decor that you like. just gotta ask...

Originally Posted by kenchan

do you guys do much online dating? does that work at all or?

i ask because when i was young, there was barely any internet.
world wide web was a mistery when it was introduced. 14.4 dial up anyone?

Originally Posted by Chuck33079

With all your new free time, decorating will be easy. Paint is cheap. Women want to see domestic potential in you.



This is where the gay friend comes in. Every straight man needs a gay friend. Stereotyping heavily, but they're great with decorations and clothes, and they are un-freaking-believable wingmen. Don't be afraid to accompany them to gay bars, either. There are straight women there accompanying their gay friends.



I tried it back in the early 2000s. I got laid a lot, but I didn't meet anyone I wanted to know for any reason but sex. It seems to have changed, though. Two of my best friends are with women they met online, and they're cool chicks.

Originally Posted by Haboob

Yeah. I watch too much HGTV and want my house to look something like what I see on some of those shows.

Originally Posted by Haboob

I have tried it, but no luck. I'm not the type of person to just hook up, I guess. That and I'm not very good at writing about myself or breaking the ice.

Originally Posted by kenchan

i c... hummm... would it help to note that you're not really good writing about yourself and stuff?

not sure, but i feel that there are many people out there that's not good at writing about one's self and also communicating their thoughts... without feeling awkward. perhaps that might be a common ground to start a relation?

Originally Posted by Chuck33079

That's how you tell the difference between the real people and the fake ones on dating sites. Real people sound awkward when writing about themselves.

Originally Posted by Haboob

Though I don't think I've ever gotten a response back on those sites.

Originally Posted by Haboob

I guess that's true.

Though I don't think I've ever gotten a response back on those sites. I guess it's just me.

Originally Posted by Chuck33079

Then stop sending unsolicited wang pics.