Dude, you realize youre being SUPER played right? Youre saying you don't care and you're not going to worry about it, but you seem to always be waiting for her next call to see what shes going to say. She keeps cancelling after making plans all the time because shes getting a better offer man. Trust me I've been there. You need to just bail on this girl completely. Stop talking to her unless she starts knocking on your door and when you answer shes already on her knees. Otherwise, she's not worth ANY of your time and you need to just bail. Good luck with it.

Haha I already moved on after a week. Cmike is in the spotlight now with his date with a nurse.

Just a little update in case anyone was wonderring. The date turned out perfect. I won't go into details, but it was one of the best dates I've ever had.

Anyway, I also wanted to pass on some stuff I learned along the way that I hope may help others. Her schedule is a bit tricky, but it can work with some effort. I don't remember if this was said already, but nurses usually works 3 or 4 days out of the week & they usually have every other weekend off. I think it can definitely work with some effort from both people. The other thing that applies to just about every relationship these days is how you communicate. It sounds oddly simple, but don't text message unless it's for an address or something. Call her and talk. If all your communications dwindle down to only texting back and forth, it's a sure sign that someone isn't really into it. Texting is a terrible habit and I think I screwed up in past relationships because I was too lazy to make a phone call. A good rule of thumb is to always assume she's wainting for your call and never assume she'll call you.

I will disagree only because you are making yourself her bitch... it's a 2 way street as you put it.
communication has to go both ways.
tho I do agree texting can be over used.

I jumped on this kinda late but... IMHO.... She's running game 3/12 is normal for nurses and 4/12 if they work OT. On occasion, you find the occasional nurse that works 8/5 and may double shift once a week. maaasaaaaybe twice a week. Nursing to nails??? Sounds like the aunt helps her juggle dudes.
Either way she's something to have fun with. You guys politik well, she's really kool. Hopefully she's hot?

My advice:
1. Don't get attached cuz she's seeing more guys than just you.
2. Use industrial strength condoms.
3. Don't make yourself completely available and make her feel like there's a slight chance you have other interests. It'll make her make you a priority. If you want that from someone possibly runnin' game?

Never trust a girl that does everything SOLELY on her time. Same from women to men.

It's just advice, take it or leave it. No harm, no foul.

Lol yea really late. I didn't lock this thread just for subject about dating nurses. This girl I spoke to doesn't have the best reputation and isn't gf or wife material. I'm looking elsewhere, but I would not mind dating someone in the medical field since it gives us something different to talk about.

:iagree: +1 tho on the shift of nurses it's very dependant on the place she works... My wife works at a hospital and currently is only working every weekend due to school, but before she was working 3 12s, with every other weekend, so sometimes 5 12s in a row...

but they also have 4 10's, or 5 8s..

I see what you mean, but that's not exactly what I meant. She absolutely needs to make an effort as well. What I've learned is that the guy needs to take the initiative, early on. I mean the exact opposite of being a someone's bitch, not that I even think in those terms. The guy has to take control, but you can't look at it as some kind of battle where one side wins. I've tried that in the past and have come to realize its meaningless bs. It's trivial and petty....it's game. It will get you laid, but it's worthless if you want to start a relationship.

Sorry to shake salt on the wound digi. That wasn't my intention. Lock the thread if you'd like.

:bowrofl:
one can go on and on about this subject, but yes, if you want a relationship, you need to always give a lil more.. and if it's good, she will return the favor..
but none of that is worthwhile if there is a lack of comm..

so bottom line, unless you just want pussy.. open your mouth an speak lol

Truth

Lol no wound to be made since I only hung out with her twice. I knew what she was doing so I played along and didn't go out of my way for her after she bailed a couple times. It cracks me up when she says "Omg I love how you understand my busy schedule."

Perfect response to:
Nurse,
"Omg I love how you understand my busy schedule."
Digitonium,
Yeah, sure, no problem. So how you want it? Gel or Spit? :rofl2:

:bowrofl::bowrofl::bowrofl:

Should be a thread how to lose a girl after the first date/hang out/meeting

1. Don't talk about your car
2. Talk about how much you rock at Call of Duty
3. Your starwars collection
and so on


And for the original OP you have alot of patience I wouldn't have entertained her *** after the first no-show. I would probably hit her up if I went out got **** faced and the odds of me finding a victim that night were slim.

bro, you wouldn't have made this thread, and said what you said if you weren't a little butt-hurt.. lol


but that's actually ok... use it on the next one..

bro, you sound like you fall too quick.. otherwise I would tell you about the 1-100 rule.. :bowrofl::bowrofl::bowrofl:

I already moved on. I'm not butt hurt over her. I don't fall for anyone that quickly.