In what sense? ;)

Sounds good, Digi! :tup:

sounds like patience is wat she wants most from a man right now. :)

Thanks, Ken. Man too bad you guys don't live as close. Car meet 'n beer sounds good right now haha.

Hey Digi,

If you'll cook that again I'll come over! :drool:

Seriously, my wife's in her last year of Nursing School, she literally hasn't had a life for the last 5 years. It's tough being a Nurse but she want's to help people who need it the most. She decided to get her BSN because that's becoming the minimum these days. She finishes this December. She plans on working a couple of years to pay of her loans, they're upwards of 45K!
I can sympathize with your situation and a busy woman in medical field and education etc.

Thanks! She's definitely a busy bee. She bailed on me again the other night saying she's been up for 24 hours straight and wanted to go home and sleep. I've not heard much from her since, but she did mention that she's almost done with the semester. [shrugs]

I hope your getting some elsewhere in the mean time?:icon17:

It's nice to meet someone who agrees to be on the same page... Friends with alil extra on the side. :)

Nah I'm not fixated on her since she hasn't convinced me she of her worth. Hahah

Keep her in The picture. She's going to be ballin when she gets her PhD and becomes a surgeon! like someone said earlier, it sounds like she's looking for patience in a man. Just don't get in that friend zone! I'm in the medical field as well, respiratory therapist, and we do 12's. I do on call hours and work up to 5 days a week, nights and days. There are days when I come home and I'm tired as **** and end up passing out after getting home.

I work with nurses and they are for the most part really busy when it comes to work. However, they also only work 3 12 hour shifts a week, so that leaves a lot of time for other stuff, unless of course they have other things going on like school in your situation along with another job.
If I were you, as long as she is showing interest here and there I would keep her around. Personally, I find women that are nurses really really attractive! I'm not sure exactly what it is! maybe its the scrubs I don't know lol.
A lot of the nurses at my workplace are sooo cute ! I flirt with so many its crazy haha. I LOVE NURSES haha

As far as dating one..I have not YET. Mostly because I am only 20 started working at the hospital when I was 19 and most of them are at least 24 -_-. I am also really busy with school ( want to be a nurse or respitory therapist myself) . Have not dated any but I sure have fun flirting with them here and there :D haha they are such flirts I love it.

Do RT! You deal with 2 systems, cardiovascular and pulmonary.

I know..!
I really want to do nursing and of course everyone at the hospital, mostly the nurses want me to do nursing.
However, I really really think RT is freaking awesome I like how (well at least at the hospital I work at) you just go all over the place and do treatment on your patients on diffrent floors so you get to roam around the place a bit more instead of sitting down charting all day in one spot as a nurse. + one more thing, you don't have as much responsibility being an RT compared to a nurse where you deal with mad Docs, family etc.
So for now, I'm trying to do nursing but really leaning towards RT.

Just be cool and have fun screwing her.

Thinking on it more than that is ill advised for any man with any woman.

:tup:

but thats the thing, he isn't hitting it..

he hasn't sealed the deal.. and if he doesn't soon, he will be friend-zoned like a boss

This thread has me on the edge of my freaking seat!!! LMAO! it's like watching Greys Anatomy season 1 all over again! :-)

:stirthepot:

Haha... I'd love to date a nurse. With her busy schedule, I can have time to myself to workout and play sports. From the grapevine I hear she doesn't have the best reputation in town. My friend's fiancee suggests I can do better. She returned my call on Friday telling me "oh, I'm so happy you understand my busy schedule blah blah, we should do dinner next week blah blah." Again, I play along and say "ok."

I have other things to do like continue looking around and doing my thing especially since I barely hear from her anyways. At this point I'm too lazy to continue contacting her lol.

There are other better [hot] nurses in town. Too bad they're taken haha.

Busy is one thing, but after all of this nonsense, I just don't think she's into you. It happens... If she still want's to hang out, let her make the plans. If you want to keep playing the game, date other girls. She'll either come around out of jealousy or move on. Either way, it's a win win.

Yea it's pretty stupid. The tone of her voice sounds like she's soooo excited whenever she talks to me. Then that's it. HA! :P

It's nice to not care about it and enjoy the finer things in life on my own or with others.

QFT :tup:

All kidding aside, she sounds like the perfect girlfriend. Never around (working all the time and out with fiends), leaving you to do whatever you want (Moding your 370Z). She is probably the type of chick that will satisfy you and herself, then leave you alone so she can shop for shoes and purses. It's a dream come true! Seriously!

:bowrofl: yea, but she doesn't put out..

and I don't think(no offense digi, just an observation) that Digi could handle that. If he doesn't need physciatric help now, he will if he goes in full retard for this chick..

I think he is doing good, but bro, seal the deal.. sleep with her and see whats up

You should deny her the next time she wants to do something and say you're busy. Give her a taste of her own medicine. Or better yet, flake on her.

BTW, I'm not losing much. Just some of my time and a portion of my unlimited minutes and texts.

Sure thing. If I make it too easy by accepting, she'll bail just as easily.


Your logic is valid. Best not to burn bridges by blowing up with a "fuuuuuuuu" reaction. :)

http://www.sundriesshack.com/wp-cont...There-Fry1.jpg

lol

I've dated two nurses in the past and never had an issue with their schedules. As someone else stated they typically work 3-12s and whatever overtime comes along so they can have plenty of time off. She does seem busy but I wouldn't hold my breathe for her though.

Oh.

Well, if by the third or fourth date/get together/hanging out/whatever there's no sex, or at least some activity in that ballpark, she's either not interested or going to be an enormous PITA to deal with or both.

Promises, busy schedules, sweet talk, blah blah blah. No sex = just friends.

bingo!

Just go for another girl. She just saying this things to keep your hopes up !! You are already in the trap anyways but aint getting no cheese

This could work ^ :P
since she is not always making herself available, do the same to her :p

Haha yea we only hung out twice and she bailed several times afterward. Not sure why she keeps planning and bailing and apologizing so much. She mentioned Friday that we should have dinner this week. I didn't answer. Just told her whenever she is not so busy and cut the conversation short. That's it... I'll leave her alone from there so I can find more productive things to do.

Agree to dinner and then ditch her to go do something else. Gotta play the game a little. Telling her whenever she's not busy is saying you're available all the time. It's up to you though. Just my two cents on what's worked for me.

That is pretty annoying.

Either, (1) she's somewhat interested but there's someone else in the background, so it's "complicated" and she's flirting but not (for now) budging, or (2) she's just too timid to flatly say "not interested in anything, so we have no reason to stay in touch".

The first option s distracting and frustrating; the second is disappointing and depressing... both suck :icon14:

So, I just met this girl. Who's a nurse :)

Anyway, we got to talking and I'm about to make plans with her. She already said yes to hanging out and I told her I'd give her a call about setting something up. She lives in NYC and has probably seen it all, so my dilemma now is finding good ideas for a first date. I can't think of anything that's not cheesy.

Maybe I should just keep it simple. Coffee and Central Park maybe? Ahhhh! Amazing how the simplest things can drive you nuts.

Have you figured out what to wear? :icon17:

I completely gave up on the other girl since I never heard from her. From what I'm told, it's all about $$ with her. It's obvious when the first week of talking to her she already talked about $$ issues.

Haha, that's the easy part. Nice Jeans, nice shirt...keeping it simple. Lesson learned after meeting up this one girl and was a bit overdressed for what she was wearing.

I'm trying to tell myself I'm overthinking this, but my subconscious is kind of a di*k. This is a semi-blind date and to be honest, I've never been on a blind date. She works with my mom at the hospital and I've only met her once in passing. She was cute from what I remember.

...Also, she gave me her number before even talking to her, so technically I have nothing to lose here.

bro. how old is she?

cheesy might just be the way to go...

:bowrofl::bowrofl::bowrofl: bro, you are definately over thinking..
it's like this.. who cares.. you flop on this one.. so what, there will be a next one..

Yeah, you're right.

She's 25. I think I'm gonna take her to MoMa or the Natural history museum or something...then dinner.

awesome! that's what's up

Wow