Are you the spoiler or the spoiled?

Originally Posted by bunk

I do all the car maintenance (or pay a shop to do it) also, but dont really consider that a chore. More like a hobby, for me anyway. She makes a really big deal when I change the oil on her car, like she owes me big time..it helps to do it on a hot day so you can really work up a sweat and look like you went through hell to change that oil