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onzedge 03-20-2015 05:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am (Post 3143175)
I have barley been on the 370Z.com as life has been rough lately at home. My gal of 21 years started to go out of her way to drive me crazy. I know all men say this sort of stuff but it was pronounce. Things not getting done, bills unpaid, constantly saying one thing doing another and when called out, simply say "I am doing the best I can". There are countless examples of unacceptable behavior.

I contemplated ending our relationship. I am so glad I didn't.

She began to exhibit signs of senility but maybe it was a TIA type stroke? She went to the doctor and was fine. Really? I took her to her doctor Monday, where I had the doctor ask her a few questions not on the usual list. I was told to take her to the ER where the diagnosis was a baseball sized mass (tumor). She's been in the hospital ever since, and I'm there till they kick me out. At 7:30 am Friday (today) she will have it removed during an 8+ hour operation. She has yet to shed a tear and I am just barely holding together.

I am telling everyone it went well in advance. Pray I'm right.
Carter,

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please -- if there is anything I can do for you do not hesitate to ask.

Hang in there, brother.

-- Donald

blackcherry20 03-20-2015 06:03 AM
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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am (Post 3143175)
I have barley been on the 370Z.com as life has been rough lately at home. My gal of 21 years started to go out of her way to drive me crazy. I know all men say this sort of stuff but it was pronounce. Things not getting done, bills unpaid, constantly saying one thing doing another and when called out, simply say "I am doing the best I can". There are countless examples of unacceptable behavior.

I contemplated ending our relationship. I am so glad I didn't.

She began to exhibit signs of senility but maybe it was a TIA type stroke? She went to the doctor and was fine. Really? I took her to her doctor Monday, where I had the doctor ask her a few questions not on the usual list. I was told to take her to the ER where the diagnosis was a baseball sized mass (tumor). She's been in the hospital ever since, and I'm there till they kick me out. At 7:30 am Friday (today) she will have it removed during an 8+ hour operation. She has yet to shed a tear and I am just barely holding together.

I am telling everyone it went well in advance. Pray I'm right.
:eek: saying a little prayer for you Tam. And your gal. [{z-hugs}]. Hang in there buddy. We are there w you in our thoughts.

Mt Tam I am 03-20-2015 10:21 AM
Thanks to all. Her name is Jay and I too just said a prayer for her. I bucked up half way through it.

I had the phone next to me all night and somehow missed her call. Jay called just as they hauled her off. I am sad I could have had another hour on the phone had I gotten the message.

I almost fell apart over the phone but got it together for one last I love you. She is stronger than I.

JARblue 03-20-2015 10:55 AM
Thoughts and prayers for Jay and Carter :tiphat:

Hotrodz 03-20-2015 11:03 AM
Hang in there man, praying for you both!

Rusty 03-20-2015 11:40 AM
You and your girl are in my prayers. I went thought the same thing with my first wife. She battled cancer for 3.5 yrs before it beat her. :( I'm hoping your girl has a better outcome. :tup:

blackcherry20 03-20-2015 06:57 PM
Any news yet?!
Thinking of you guys (Jay and Carter)!

Memphis370Z 03-20-2015 08:11 PM
Just sent up a prayer for the both of y'all, as well as the surgeon(s) and hospital staff. Keep your chin up.

Mt Tam I am 03-20-2015 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted by blackcherry20 (Post 3144078)
Any news yet?!
Thinking of you guys (Jay and Carter)!
12 hours of surgery and that's all I know so far. I am wrung out emotionally.

Thanks to all once again,

Carter

Mt Tam I am 03-21-2015 02:31 AM
I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.

onzedge 03-21-2015 04:54 AM
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Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am (Post 3144289)
I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.
Carter -- call me today when you are up for it.

blackcherry20 03-21-2015 06:41 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am (Post 3144289)
I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.
Thanks for taking time to keep us updated Carter...additional prayers headed your way.

onzedge 03-21-2015 06:41 AM
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Originally Posted by blackcherry20 (Post 3144420)
Thanks for taking time to keep us updated Carter...additional prayers headed your way.
:iagree:

JARblue 03-21-2015 07:08 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mt Tam I am (Post 3144289)
I just got home from the hospital. She is heavily sedated but seemed to know me. She has a breathing tube currently so I did all the talking. As she is in ICU, I had more time waiting than seeing, but I was so relieved to be with her.

She is swollen and may have a vision issue in her left eye but that may be just fine in the end. She looks a lot better than I could have hoped from the doctors prep talk. The breathing tube will likely be removed in the morning and I'd like to be there early as they will let me.

Thanks for all the support.
This is an encouraging update :) Continuing thoughts and prayers for her recovery stage and for your strength.

onzedge 03-21-2015 07:12 AM
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Originally Posted by JARblue (Post 3144442)
This is an encouraging update :) Continuing thoughts and prayers for her recovery stage and for your strength.
:iagree:


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