Over 30 and still single, post here.

DIGItonium

Just a topic many can relate to, and it has been a fun one. I've run into several friends who are in the same situation as well. Where I'm at it IS tough. It's just the mentality.

The girl I met at a restaurant a few months ago (youngest, who was honest enough to tell me she had no interests) contacted me out of the blue. She met a guy and later realized was a total dbag. He couldn't respect women. She said that's what she gets for falling for a good looking guy since it matters to her. She says lots of guys here treat her well, but she has no interest in them. Then tells me to come visit her workplace on Wednesday. Ha! I'm not falling for that. Maybe get her to meet me up instead. Although she's fun to talk to, that's pretty much it.

As for the one I went on a date with last week, I bumped into her Friday night at a piano bar, had drinks, danced, etc. I made moves to get closer (hugs, kisses on the side, hand contact, etc.), and she responded quick. Phone communication is still iffy. This is all deja vu, and my spider senses are tingling... I have a feeling she's already got someone. I'll just ride this one out and try to squeeze in a few more dates since she hasn't given me the "speech" yet. Peculiar behavior, indeed.

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