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Isamu 05-06-2013 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Cmike2780 (Post 2302860)
So, I just met this girl. Who's a nurse :)

Anyway, we got to talking and I'm about to make plans with her. She already said yes to hanging out and I told her I'd give her a call about setting something up. She lives in NYC and has probably seen it all, so my dilemma now is finding good ideas for a first date. I can't think of anything that's not cheesy.

Maybe I should just keep it simple. Coffee and Central Park maybe? Ahhhh! Amazing how the simplest things can drive you nuts.

bro. how old is she?

cheesy might just be the way to go...

Isamu 05-06-2013 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Cmike2780 (Post 2302892)
Haha, that's the easy part. Nice Jeans, nice shirt...keeping it simple. Lesson learned after meeting up this one girl and was a bit overdressed for what she was wearing.

I'm trying to tell myself I'm overthinking this, but my subconscious is kind of a di*k. This is a semi-blind date and to be honest, I've never been on a blind date. She works with my mom at the hospital and I've only met her once in passing. She was cute from what I remember.

...Also, she gave me her number before even talking to her, so technically I have nothing to lose here.

:bowrofl::bowrofl::bowrofl: bro, you are definately over thinking..
it's like this.. who cares.. you flop on this one.. so what, there will be a next one..

Cmike2780 05-06-2013 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu (Post 2303042)
bro. how old is she?

cheesy might just be the way to go...

Yeah, you're right.

She's 25. I think I'm gonna take her to MoMa or the Natural history museum or something...then dinner.

Isamu 05-06-2013 07:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Cmike2780 (Post 2303103)
Yeah, you're right.

She's 25. I think I'm gonna take her to MoMa or the Natural history museum or something...then dinner.

awesome! that's what's up

122554 05-06-2013 07:39 PM

Wow

dc3843 05-06-2013 07:59 PM

Dude, you realize youre being SUPER played right? Youre saying you don't care and you're not going to worry about it, but you seem to always be waiting for her next call to see what shes going to say. She keeps cancelling after making plans all the time because shes getting a better offer man. Trust me I've been there. You need to just bail on this girl completely. Stop talking to her unless she starts knocking on your door and when you answer shes already on her knees. Otherwise, she's not worth ANY of your time and you need to just bail. Good luck with it.

DIGItonium 05-06-2013 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by dc3843 (Post 2303358)
Dude, you realize youre being SUPER played right?

Haha I already moved on after a week. Cmike is in the spotlight now with his date with a nurse.

Cmike2780 05-13-2013 08:26 AM

Just a little update in case anyone was wonderring. The date turned out perfect. I won't go into details, but it was one of the best dates I've ever had.

Anyway, I also wanted to pass on some stuff I learned along the way that I hope may help others. Her schedule is a bit tricky, but it can work with some effort. I don't remember if this was said already, but nurses usually works 3 or 4 days out of the week & they usually have every other weekend off. I think it can definitely work with some effort from both people. The other thing that applies to just about every relationship these days is how you communicate. It sounds oddly simple, but don't text message unless it's for an address or something. Call her and talk. If all your communications dwindle down to only texting back and forth, it's a sure sign that someone isn't really into it. Texting is a terrible habit and I think I screwed up in past relationships because I was too lazy to make a phone call. A good rule of thumb is to always assume she's wainting for your call and never assume she'll call you.

Isamu 05-13-2013 06:00 PM

I will disagree only because you are making yourself her bitch... it's a 2 way street as you put it.
communication has to go both ways.
tho I do agree texting can be over used.

UNKNOWN_370 05-13-2013 06:25 PM

I jumped on this kinda late but... IMHO.... She's running game 3/12 is normal for nurses and 4/12 if they work OT. On occasion, you find the occasional nurse that works 8/5 and may double shift once a week. maaasaaaaybe twice a week. Nursing to nails??? Sounds like the aunt helps her juggle dudes.
Either way she's something to have fun with. You guys politik well, she's really kool. Hopefully she's hot?

My advice:
1. Don't get attached cuz she's seeing more guys than just you.
2. Use industrial strength condoms.
3. Don't make yourself completely available and make her feel like there's a slight chance you have other interests. It'll make her make you a priority. If you want that from someone possibly runnin' game?

Never trust a girl that does everything SOLELY on her time. Same from women to men.

It's just advice, take it or leave it. No harm, no foul.

DIGItonium 05-13-2013 06:33 PM

Lol yea really late. I didn't lock this thread just for subject about dating nurses. This girl I spoke to doesn't have the best reputation and isn't gf or wife material. I'm looking elsewhere, but I would not mind dating someone in the medical field since it gives us something different to talk about.

Isamu 05-13-2013 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by UNKNOWN_370 (Post 2314118)
I jumped on this kinda late but... IMHO.... She's running game 3/12 is normal for nurses and 4/12 if they work OT. On occasion, you find the occasional nurse that works 8/5 and may double shift once a week. maaasaaaaybe twice a week. Nursing to nails??? Sounds like the aunt helps her juggle dudes.
Either way she's something to have fun with. You guys politik well, she's really kool. Hopefully she's hot?

My advice:
1. Don't get attached cuz she's seeing more guys than just you.
2. Use industrial strength condoms.
3. Don't make yourself completely available and make her feel like there's a slight chance you have other interests. It'll make her make you a priority. If you want that from someone possibly runnin' game?

Never trust a girl that does everything SOLELY on her time. Same from women to men.

It's just advice, take it or leave it. No harm, no foul.

:iagree: +1 tho on the shift of nurses it's very dependant on the place she works... My wife works at a hospital and currently is only working every weekend due to school, but before she was working 3 12s, with every other weekend, so sometimes 5 12s in a row...

but they also have 4 10's, or 5 8s..

Cmike2780 05-13-2013 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu (Post 2314078)
I will disagree only because you are making yourself her bitch... it's a 2 way street as you put it.
communication has to go both ways.
tho I do agree texting can be over used.

I see what you mean, but that's not exactly what I meant. She absolutely needs to make an effort as well. What I've learned is that the guy needs to take the initiative, early on. I mean the exact opposite of being a someone's bitch, not that I even think in those terms. The guy has to take control, but you can't look at it as some kind of battle where one side wins. I've tried that in the past and have come to realize its meaningless bs. It's trivial and petty....it's game. It will get you laid, but it's worthless if you want to start a relationship.

Sorry to shake salt on the wound digi. That wasn't my intention. Lock the thread if you'd like.

Isamu 05-13-2013 09:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Cmike2780 (Post 2314362)
I see what you mean, but that's not exactly what I meant. She absolutely needs to make an effort as well. What I've learned is that the guy needs to take the initiative, early on. I mean the exact opposite of being a someone's bitch, not that I even think in those terms. The guy has to take control, but you can't look at it as some kind of battle where one side wins. I've tried that in the past and have come to realize its meaningless bs. It's trivial and petty....it's game. It will get you laid, but it's worthless if you want to start a relationship.

Sorry to shake salt on the wound digi. That wasn't my intention. Lock the thread if you'd like.

:bowrofl:
one can go on and on about this subject, but yes, if you want a relationship, you need to always give a lil more.. and if it's good, she will return the favor..
but none of that is worthwhile if there is a lack of comm..

so bottom line, unless you just want pussy.. open your mouth an speak lol

Cmike2780 05-13-2013 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Isamu (Post 2314400)
:bowrofl:
one can go on and on about this subject, but yes, if you want a relationship, you need to always give a lil more.. and if it's good, she will return the favor..
but none of that is worthwhile if there is a lack of comm..

so bottom line, unless you just want pussy.. open your mouth an speak lol

Truth


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