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shabarivas 02-06-2010 09:45 PM

Take her line dancing next week - on the way home stop over somewhere nice and just say wanna chat about some stuff? Tell her you have been enjoying time with her and you will miss it when she moves away... drop the ball on her court and play it by ear. Just tell her what you have been telling us man... if she digs you and feels the same then go for it... Distance means nothing quite honestly...

jeepersnate 02-06-2010 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by shabarivas (Post 390741)
Take her line dancing next week - on the way home stop over somewhere nice and just say wanna chat about some stuff? Tell her you have been enjoying time with her and you will miss it when she moves away... drop the ball on her court and play it by ear. Just tell her what you have been telling us man... if she digs you and feels the same then go for it... Distance means nothing quite honestly...

Yeah

j.arnaldo 02-07-2010 10:48 AM

Are you a Mason, SmoothZ? What's with the Oroboros serp'?

frost 02-07-2010 10:50 AM

Are we still talking about this? Did you get her a gift yet?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhwbxEfy7fg

Togo 02-07-2010 10:53 AM

lmao frost.. thats great!

bigaudiofanat 02-11-2010 08:47 PM

Just my luck, she was going to go to Virgina on Saturday but they decided to leave today her and her family. They will not be back until Monday. I texted her today to ask if she wanted to hang out or something but never heard back from her. "Now I know why he was busy packing" UGH

sloterg 02-13-2010 12:53 PM

i agree with everyone here, u gotta tell her how u feel, most girls are great at analyzing everything u do step by step. while ur thinking of one thing shes thought about a million others. they like to weigh their choices soemtimes and sometimes u gotta make her an offer she cant refuse lol. u gotta show her u can man up and tell her, and once u do, explain to her ur situation, and maybe with that, she can explain to u, hers. confidence is the most important thing u can have when ur with or planning to be with someone. that establishes whos gonna be the dominant one in the relationship.

SmoothZ 02-13-2010 01:02 PM

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Originally Posted by j.arnaldo (Post 391130)
Are you a Mason, SmoothZ? What's with the Oroboros serp'?

Not a Mason. I'm into ancient symbols and was researching my next tat.

frost 02-13-2010 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by sloterg (Post 400320)
i agree with everyone here, u gotta give her your dick in a box

:iagree:

sloterg 02-13-2010 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by frost (Post 400354)
:iagree:

lmao

blue660r01 02-13-2010 08:33 PM

why didnt you keep your yankee av :mad:

Hi-Step'n370Z 02-13-2010 09:00 PM

I have some time to kill, need some guidance
 
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Originally Posted by shabarivas (Post 390741)

Take her line dancing next week - on the way home stop over somewhere nice and just say wanna chat about some stuff? Tell her you have been enjoying time with her and you will miss it when she moves away... drop the ball on her court and play it by ear. Just tell her what you have been telling us man... if she digs you and feels the same then go for it... Distance means nothing quite honestly...

I agree with shabarivas. Drop the ball on her court. Let her take some responsibility in this issue. I'd hate to see you go all out and show your hand without any real indication from her as to how she feels. You need to keep at least some of the power in the relationship, spilling your guts to her might make you look too needy, then she'll have all the power in the relationship. Plus, she may then see you as just a wussy boy, and you don't want that! You two should do a mutual thing here. You can start it, but she MUST contribute.

Telling her you enjoy time with her, and will miss her when she's gone is a great lead in, then see what she says to that. Seems like she'd have at least enough to say so you'll have an idea as to how she feels about you. If she likes you she'll say so. Women are strong like that.

You said she hinted at how she felt, can you be more specific?

bigaudiofanat 02-14-2010 09:12 AM

When we were coming home from getting her computer she constantly thanked me for coming with her. As we got closer home she talked about how she talks with guys but they are like afraid of their feelings. At the same time we were talking about god and how sometimes it can be unclear about where we should be guided. I can not remember everything she said. I kicked myself later because it was as if she was pushing me to say something and I didn't.

Jjaden 02-14-2010 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by bigaudiofanat (Post 400886)
When we were coming home from getting her computer she constantly thanked me for coming with her. As we got closer home she talked about how she talks with guys but they are like afraid of their feelings. At the same time we were talking about god and how sometimes it can be unclear about where we should be guided. I can not remember everything she said. I kicked myself later because it was as if she was pushing me to say something and I didn't.

You need to pull the trigger on this ASAP.

theDreamer 02-14-2010 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Jjaden (Post 400905)
You need to pull the trigger on this ASAP.

:iagree:
It sounds like she basically said, "you should be asking me out right now."


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