slitting wrist... Don't do it.

Putting everything out on a forum is usually a pretty bad idea... I've been in your situation twice before, I still think of my ex's and were still on good terms when we catch up, it's been 7 years with one of them but in order to see or talk to my ex without heartache, I had to cut all ties and contact for quite a while (2 years i think).

You need to find something to completely take your mind off it, You won't get your closure because no reason will be satisfying enough for you. She might have even told you and it just wasn't enough of a reason. Sometimes people will get bored or simply just want a change. It sucks for you if that's the case but it's a likely possibility... I know it sucks, I know you're bummed that she might be happy and you're miserable.

But as people have said before, There are many more women out there with all the qualities you liked in this one and then some. Stahp looking at it as "she was supposed to be my only one" or "i was supposed to be her only one", you were in a sense just a practice run... Don't fool yourself into believing she'll come back, get yourself to the point where if she actually does come back, that you don't want her back.

You'll drive yourself crazy trying to understand everything that goes on in her head... You see how things are between you two now. Leave it that way and do better than you were before. Focus on school and work, make a name for yourself.

Oh wow! When I came into this thread I was expecting pics of the boosted 350Z you sold to make room for your stock 370.

You go to school in Orlando and drive a sexy Z! Count your blessings man and don't get too attached to anyone, you're too young for that sh!t.

And while you're at it, please lose the black and white avatar with the pout and head tilt. It's not doing you any good nor making you look like a bad boy. And definitely follow the million dollar advice below:

33yo checking in

I've had every conceivable type of relationship, I was engaged once, but never married.

The best thing I ever did for myself, was read this book:
The Rational Male: Rollo Tomassi: 9781492777861: Amazon.com: Books

Which introduced me to the various concepts that comprise the mindset usually referred to as the "Red Pill" or RP. No, its not pick up game crap. Its pretty involved into the psychology of men and women and attraction.

It will help clear your mind in the short term as you get past the break up.

He also has a blog, and a 2nd book. But start there.

There is no such thing as closure, honestly. When someone says they want closure, its more of way of saying I want another conversation for another chance.

You can't negotiate attraction. Do you really and truly want to convince someone why they should spend time with you, or would you rather meet someone who values you and the same way you value them?

The vast majority of relationships in life are about loss; parents, spouse, whomever. The sooner you learn to manage it and operate with your own personal frame and goals, the strong you will be and the more fulfilling your life will be.

Someone here is not living up to the forum name they have chosen...:wtf2:

Will definitely check this book out, thanks for the recommendation.

There's nothing wrong with venting or wanting to get this off your chest, it's normal for a man as young as you are To go through these things as we all did at some point. Thinking about someone is one thing, allowing it to consume you is another. Learn to love you, put you first and never put more energy into someone else than you put in yourself. If it's eating at you that bad, then get in contact with her and if she turns you down, then that'll be all the closure you need to move on, but don't waste your young, prime of your life years with a "what if"? Call her and get it off your chest if your really into her that much..............Or you can do like I would and get over pussy with more pussy:)

When I was your age many moons ago my girlfriend and I broke up and my Mother told me "girls are a dime a dozen and they're a million of them out there. Go find another." I did, several of them and guess who I'm married to now and have been for almost 19 years. That first girlfriend.

Maybe you should work on this problem first, focus your energy on school and career then everything else will fall into place, just give it time man, stop thinking about her because she sounded like she's moved on.

work retail. meet a lot of people.

GL

here lol

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It's time to go post office bro!

Lick em, stick em, and send them on their way!!! :yum::leghump::gtfo2:

Yeah, what these guys said.

Go get a job at the post office, meet new people :rofl2:

LOL dude really?? go back and read your posts/replies in other threads. it's a great big mystery as to why she left you. good for her.

Yeah he was acting like a douche bag for sure and attacking the entire club and everyone in it. Maybe Trips banged his girlfriend and that's why he went off like that, LMFAO................

To the OP. You are only 24 years young. There is more in life than smashing grapes for one woman. Yea yea yea, I get it .....that one that I really love....
Dude, time heals and with your Z you can get more than one. You can get as many as you want but they would have to wait in line since you only have two seats. What I mean with this is, you will get over it, time will pass and you will be ok.

I'm going to tell you a secret... but you can not tell anyone.. OK... Promise not to tell.
When I was younger (20 some years ago) the only thing that I cared about loosing was my virginity. Once I lost it, I didn't care about anything else because I lost the only thing worth losing.

Now grow up, be a man and stop whining about a "puppy love feelings and a broken heart". This is a "manly" forum. If you want consolation then go to www.Igotdumped.com or www.Imlostwithouther.com.