Sorry to hear Betty. Sounds like the right move. Best of luck to you
I've been all over the map since my divorce two years ago (after 12 years together, 9 married). Sometimes it was fun just for fun, sometimes it was serious dating and sometimes it was actively avoiding dating. Now I've found that I'm in a good place just doing my thing and going with the flow; I know what I bring to the table. If someone wants to enrich my life, I'm all for it. But I'm not about to settle just for a companion.