Originally Posted by SOUTHZZ

Without knowing what your "knowledge" is ,it is difficult to give you a fix.

However,I'll give you a fix on what I would do.
I possibly have more training(my age etc) to enable this.

I'd stop by a grocery store and fix her a in house meal of what you know she likes.
Cap this off with a good wine and GREAT flowers.

The remainder just happens...

She will brag to her friends about all your trouble and the great meal.

If you do not know how to pull all this off.
It's time to learn.