The high engagement point is normal. IMO, don't try to lower it. You'll end up messing up the master and/or slave cylinder. In fact, you'll end up getting used to it because it makes it easier to shift. So what you're going through just requires a bit of adjusting and getting accustomed to it. It's not impossible to shift smoothly in this car, and I'm doing it better than the 350Z.
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