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Originally Posted by LadyZ
Guess I just don't see how me being thoughtful and trying to help comes off as "snarky". It was a perfectly polite message.
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maybe this is why you are single? You need to realize that your "thoughtfulness" can be sending off the complete opposite vibes.
I mean really, what did you think that guy would say? "oh yea you're right Ill change my profile right now and start talking to you"
I hate to be harsh but it sounds like you need a reality check. Guys dont like being told what to do or what to be. No one does. Especially not when its said in the very first sentence from someone you have never met before.
It wasnt polite, polite would be like "hey, how are you?"