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cow 12-20-2008 05:22 PM

trust fund > law

dutty370Z 12-21-2008 08:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dad (Post 10688)
273.5. (a) Any person who willfully inflicts upon a person who is
his or her spouse, former spouse, cohabitant, former cohabitant, or
the mother or father of his or her child, corporal injury resulting
in a traumatic condition, is guilty of a felony, and upon conviction
thereof shall be punished by imprisonment in the state prison for
two, three, or four years, or in a county jail for not more than one
year, or by a fine of up to six thousand dollars ($6,000) or by both
that fine and imprisonment.
(b) Holding oneself out to be the husband or wife of the person
with whom one is cohabiting is not necessary to constitute
cohabitation as the term is used in this section.
(c) As used in this section, "traumatic condition" means a
condition of the body, such as a wound or external or internal
injury, whether of a minor or serious nature, caused by a physical
force.
(d) For the purpose of this section, a person shall be considered
the father or mother of another person's child if the alleged male
parent is presumed the natural father under Sections 7611 and 7612 of
the Family Code.
(e) (1) Any person convicted of violating this section for acts
occurring within seven years of a previous conviction under
subdivision (a), or subdivision (d) of Section 243, or Section 243.4,
244, 244.5, or 245, shall be punished by imprisonment in a county
jail for not more than one year, or by imprisonment in the state
prison for two, four, or five years, or by both imprisonment and a
fine of up to ten thousand dollars ($10,000).
(2) Any person convicted of a violation of this section for acts
occurring within seven years of a previous conviction under
subdivision (e) of Section 243 shall be punished by imprisonment in
the state prison for two, three, or four years, or in a county jail
for not more than one year, or by a fine of up to ten thousand
dollars ($10,000), or by both that imprisonment and fine.
(f) If probation is granted to any person convicted under
subdivision (a), the court shall impose probation consistent with the
provisions of Section 1203.097.
(g) If probation is granted, or the execution or imposition of a
sentence is suspended, for any defendant convicted under subdivision
(a) who has been convicted of any prior offense specified in
subdivision (e), the court shall impose one of the following
conditions of probation:
(1) If the defendant has suffered one prior conviction within the
previous seven years for a violation of any offense specified in
subdivision (e), it shall be a condition thereof, in addition to the
provisions contained in Section 1203.097, that he or she be
imprisoned in a county jail for not less than 15 days.
(2) If the defendant has suffered two or more prior convictions
within the previous seven years for a violation of any offense
specified in subdivision (e), it shall be a condition of probation,
in addition to the provisions contained in Section 1203.097, that he
or she be imprisoned in a county jail for not less than 60 days.
(3) The court, upon a showing of good cause, may find that the
mandatory imprisonment required by this subdivision shall not be
imposed and shall state on the record its reasons for finding good
cause.
(h) If probation is granted upon conviction of a violation of
subdivision (a), the conditions of probation may include, consistent
with the terms of probation imposed pursuant to Section 1203.097, in
lieu of a fine, one or both of the following requirements:
(1) That the defendant make payments to a battered women's
shelter, up to a maximum of five thousand dollars ($5,000), pursuant
to Section 1203.097.
(2) That the defendant reimburse the victim for reasonable costs
of counseling and other reasonable expenses that the court finds are
the direct result of the defendant's offense.
For any order to pay a fine, make payments to a battered women's
shelter, or pay restitution as a condition of probation under this
subdivision, the court shall make a determination of the defendant's
ability to pay. In no event shall any order to make payments to a
battered women's shelter be made if it would impair the ability of
the defendant to pay direct restitution to the victim or
court-ordered child support. Where the injury to a married person is
caused in whole or in part by the criminal acts of his or her spouse
in violation of this section, the community property may not be used
to discharge the liability of the offending spouse for restitution to
the injured spouse, required by Section 1203.04, as operative on or
before August 2, 1995, or Section 1202.4, or to a shelter for costs
with regard to the injured spouse and dependents, required by this
section, until all separate property of the offending spouse is
exhausted.
(i) Upon conviction under subdivision (a), the sentencing court
shall also consider issuing an order restraining the defendant from
any contact with the victim, which may be valid for up to 10 years,
as determined by the court. It is the intent of the Legislature that
the length of any restraining order be based upon the seriousness of
the facts before the court, the probability of future violations, and
the safety of the victim and his or her immediate family. This
protective order may be issued by the court whether the defendant is
sentenced to state prison, county jail, or if imposition of sentence
is suspended and the defendant is placed on probation.

So basically, its illegal to hit your spouse. But sometimes you gotta shake her real good to get your point across!

SMJane_Again 12-21-2008 10:12 AM

Okay, I'm going to try to offer my viewpoint on this without resorting to any played out wife beating or 'if she doesn't like it, divorce the b*tch' stereotypes, because the OP MIGHT have been a little serious way back at the beginning of this. Or not. But it's a topic worthy of more than just superficially macho, flippant remarks (though there have been more than a few posts in this thread that haven't been about that and I salute you gentlemen for your insight) because things like this do come up.

I've been married for over 7 years now, and if nothing else, my wife tolerates my obsession with cars. More importantly, she understands why they mean so much to me and wants me to get one. NOT because I threatened to leave her if I didn't get one (and before I get any indignant flame-like responses, I am fully aware that the great majority of these posts were made tongue firmly in cheek) but because I was able to fully and accurately convey the import they have on my life. As a result, it's merely a matter of time and money.

So what can you do in return? Indulge in her obsessions, even if you don't share her passion for her hobby. Support her once in awhile. It's something I had to learn with practice and patience because I was extremely self-centered at the beginning of our marriage. All right, I'm done pontificating, at least for the most part. The last part I'll leave with, which dad kind of alluded to with his law quote, is the written word sometimes masks sarcasm and levity, and no matter how obvious your humor might seem to you, it may miss the mark completely with someone else. And now, back to the discussion of how you and yours can coexist with your brand new sportscar! :tup:

S.

frost 12-21-2008 11:08 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dutty370Z (Post 10991)
So basically, its illegal to hit your spouse. But sometimes you gotta shake her real good to get your point across!

::shrug:: she just fell down the stairs as far as I know. :wtf2:
On a serious note however, my boss wanted to get a new car, and his wife was very much against it. He convinced her that the money he would spend on keeping an old car that was out of warranty, burning oil, got less gas mileage, etc, was more expensive the car payment for a new car. It worked, fwiw.

ReverbTek 12-21-2008 12:02 PM

i'd say soemthing but im not married, but for future good pointers and about the marriage problems my parents fought front me couple of times but next day its like never happen and my parents been married for 20 years now.

dad 12-21-2008 12:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dutty370Z (Post 10991)
So basically, its illegal to hit your spouse. But sometimes you gotta shake her real good to get your point across!

Every state has a "domestic violence law" similar to that one. "All it takes is a bruise", that you caused! Some states the police have "absolutely no choice at all but to arrest the person who caused the bruise"!
Swat your kid, leave a mark,-you go to jail!

If convicted--You lose your 2nd Amendment right to own a gun-For life!!!

FricFrac 12-21-2008 02:46 PM

Its pretty simple - self centered people should never get married to each other. Unfortunately it only takes one self centered person to mess it up.....

Since I got married my baby ('81 280ZX) that I had for the previous eight years was stolen while I was in school getting my Electronics Eng Tech. Money was tight but my dad had a third vehicle ('91 Maxima) that I borrowed. As time progressed more kids appeared (how did that happen?) and my wife's old MPV was too small with the addition of foster kids in our house so our plan of me finally getting my 300ZX TT was squished but we ended up with a really nice and reliable '04 Toyota Sienna. I just sold my rental unit and I'm building a second house so if we can afford it once we are done I've got the green light for a 370Z. If not I'll get a second hand 350Z or maybe nothing. This will be my first new car. I've loved the 240Z since I was a kid so I'm really excited about the 370Z with its retro 240Z esque look. Give and take works pretty good - you just have to have the patience to let it work.

18rgcelica73 12-21-2008 02:50 PM

My wife just wants her new car then she said I can have the 370z as long as she gets her's first. I said ha ha ha that works for me. My wife is frickin' awesome.

Pushing_Tin 12-21-2008 08:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SMJane_Again (Post 11006)
Okay, I'm going to try to offer my viewpoint on this without resorting to any played out wife beating or 'if she doesn't like it, divorce the b*tch' stereotypes, because the OP MIGHT have been a little serious way back at the beginning of this. Or not. But it's a topic worthy of more than just superficially macho, flippant remarks (though there have been more than a few posts in this thread that haven't been about that and I salute you gentlemen for your insight) because things like this do come up.

I've been married for over 7 years now, and if nothing else, my wife tolerates my obsession with cars. More importantly, she understands why they mean so much to me and wants me to get one. NOT because I threatened to leave her if I didn't get one (and before I get any indignant flame-like responses, I am fully aware that the great majority of these posts were made tongue firmly in cheek) but because I was able to fully and accurately convey the import they have on my life. As a result, it's merely a matter of time and money.

So what can you do in return? Indulge in her obsessions, even if you don't share her passion for her hobby. Support her once in awhile. It's something I had to learn with practice and patience because I was extremely self-centered at the beginning of our marriage. All right, I'm done pontificating, at least for the most part. The last part I'll leave with, which dad kind of alluded to with his law quote, is the written word sometimes masks sarcasm and levity, and no matter how obvious your humor might seem to you, it may miss the mark completely with someone else. And now, back to the discussion of how you and yours can coexist with your brand new sportscar! :tup:

S.


Great posting! I've been with my wife for 6 years, married for two, she also knew about my car obsession long before we were married. She knows I don't need a new car (have an 07) but she also knows that I work my *** off and LOVE cars. It doesn't hurt that she likes horse back riding, which is more expensive than my car hobby. :rofl2:

shumby 12-21-2008 08:19 PM

True. My wife is kind enough to undstand my love with cars. She also loves fine cloths. So it is a trade off if i get mods she gets more clothes. Works well but a car is not something to breakup over.


But it is fun to bash on the wives a little. It is a good thing my wife shares my sense of humor or we would not have been together for 10 years now and married for 4

Maynard 12-21-2008 08:35 PM

My wife understands my love for cars. This morning after brewing a pot of coffee in the kitchen, I walked into the living room and found her watching Top Gear. It wasn't the first time I caught her either either :)

shumby 12-21-2008 08:37 PM

^^^^ what was she wearing? lol

Maynard 12-21-2008 08:38 PM

Haha, you'll never know :)

shumby 12-21-2008 08:41 PM

post pics or you're a lier lol

BanningZ 12-21-2008 09:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maynard (Post 11165)
My wife understands my love for cars. This morning after brewing a pot of coffee in the kitchen, I walked into the living room and found her watching Top Gear. It wasn't the first time I caught her either either :)

That's awesome! My fiancee loves Top Gear too! She is always yelling at Fathead Clarkson. lol

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q...f35acf5a3e.gif

18rgcelica73 12-22-2008 12:10 AM

I have comcast cable but I don't think I can get top gear. What channel is it?

BanningZ 12-22-2008 12:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 18rgcelica73 (Post 11223)
I have comcast cable but I don't think I can get top gear. What channel is it?

http://www.the370z.com/lounge-off-to...y-episode.html

^^^Thanks to xDIEGOx for that^^^

I have dish network and its on channel 135 BBC America for me.

For Comcast Cable in Fresno, CA area code 93650 BBC America is on Channel# 162

TacoZ 12-22-2008 01:11 AM

All you guys that are married and are having problems should've made sure to set the ground rules before you got married.

I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years now and she understands my passion for sports cars. Well she doesn't really understand it. She understands it as well as I understand her needing to buy new clothes and shoes every week. We just accept it. We have a verbal agreement that I am able to buy a new car every 5 years after we get married. No questions asked. If we can afford it, we'll buy it. That's the only thing that I ask for in our future marriage. As long as it doesn't bankrupt you, you should always support each other's interests. Life is too short to not enjoy and go after what you want.

Maynard 12-22-2008 02:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BanningZ (Post 11171)

That is one FREAKY lookin gif :eekdance:

dutty370Z 12-22-2008 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 18rgcelica73 (Post 11070)
My wife just wants her new car then she said I can have the 370z as long as she gets her's first. I said ha ha ha that works for me. My wife is frickin' awesome.

What does your wife want? Mine wants a Lexus RX.

dutty370Z 12-22-2008 08:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maynard (Post 11165)
My wife understands my love for cars. This morning after brewing a pot of coffee in the kitchen, I walked into the living room and found her watching Top Gear. It wasn't the first time I caught her either either :)

Haha. My wife will watch Top Gear with me. Until I get up, then she flips to Days of our lives.

Greg 12-22-2008 08:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Maynard (Post 11165)
My wife understands my love for cars. This morning after brewing a pot of coffee in the kitchen, I walked into the living room and found her watching Top Gear. It wasn't the first time I caught her either either :)

You do know it's because of Hammond right?









j/k My wife and I are fans of the show as well, along with fifth gear and BMI. ;)

nogoodname 12-22-2008 12:09 PM

so dutty370Z, it's page 7 now, did you convince the wife yet????

dutty370Z 12-22-2008 12:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nogoodname007 (Post 11310)
so dutty370Z, it's page 7 now, did you convince the wife yet????

Ha. I think so! :) But i'll know for sure after she opens her christmas gift!

nogoodname 12-22-2008 01:10 PM

what did you get for her???

dutty370Z 12-22-2008 01:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nogoodname007 (Post 11320)
what did you get for her???

oh nutn spectacular, just some wool pea coat thing from victoria secrets, and a bunch of other little things I know she will use.

nogoodname 12-22-2008 01:14 PM

^^ LOL...hopefully she'll fall for it, if not.....


just do the "Golden Rule" thing

shumby 12-22-2008 03:18 PM

i am lucy my wife wants the 370

nogoodname 12-22-2008 07:18 PM

^^ for her only, forgot to mention that part

shumby 12-23-2008 01:41 AM

^^^ shut it how much convincing you had to do to get your right habnd to let you get the Z lolz

nogoodname 12-23-2008 09:17 AM

^^^ such a weirdo, maybe in the summer time.....i might get one..lol

most likely importing it from the States

18rgcelica73 12-24-2008 11:04 AM

^ So it will be even more expensive for you. That really blows. At least it will be very fun.

nogoodname 12-24-2008 11:07 AM

^^ Canadians always have to chip in more......lol........damn dollar

the price diff between Canada and the States is still quite big

ReverbTek 12-24-2008 10:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nogoodname007 (Post 11847)
^^ Canadians always have to chip in more......lol........damn dollar

the price diff between Canada and the States is still quite big

yea true while i was there i had to think twice before i bought something im like this is just to much

18rgcelica73 12-26-2008 01:09 PM

^^ Even so this car should prove to be worth every penny.

dutty370Z 12-29-2008 06:56 AM

Ok, I finally got her on board, then she pops the inevitable question... "Well, why don't you just get the used Infiniti [G35] that you wanted before? It's alot cheaper."

....check.

BanningZ 12-29-2008 09:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dutty370Z (Post 13653)
Ok, I finally got her on board, then she pops the inevitable question... "Well, why don't you just get the used Infiniti [G35] that you wanted before? It's alot cheaper."

....check.

Pull the issue of warranty advantages with New Nissans, as well as current market appreciations with Japanese sport cars.

Idk...might work.

Mythos219 12-29-2008 09:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dutty370Z (Post 13653)
Ok, I finally got her on board, then she pops the inevitable question... "Well, why don't you just get the used Infiniti [G35] that you wanted before? It's alot cheaper."

....check.

The warranty argument should work. Also throw in that G35s had quality control issues and cheap interiors. In the long run a new car is better. Maintenance on Infinitis is higher. Chicks usually don't know much about cars so you have a lot of ground to play with in changing her mind. If you sound convincing and direct she'll come around. If you sound meek and uncertain she will sense it and your goose is cooked.

Alexus 12-29-2008 11:03 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nogoodname007 (Post 11553)
^^^ such a weirdo, maybe in the summer time.....i might get one..lol

most likely importing it from the States

Good luck with that. It's against Nissan's company policy to have vehicles imported from the States into Canada through dealerships so it'll take a lot of digging around, not to mention you'll probably void the warranty.


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