I don't believe in the soul mate garbage, but I do believe in not settling. There are so many people out there, the thought that you can't have everything you want is a little ridiculous.

This.

Don't settle. Don't say "well it's the best I can do."

There is no rush to get married or find a lifelong partner or w/e. If you do you will be miserable and hate yourself for the rest of your life.