Damn, arent i the lucky one...
 

Over the past 6-7 years, this is now the 4th girlfriend in a row thats cheated on me... What a friggin bummer man. Damn this **** is fuckin hard to deal with. Hopefully the Z is going to come to my rescue once again. I know this is totally off topic, but i just feel i gotta share this, a little advice here and there has always helped me cope out before. I feel wrecked...

Women lie/cheat/steal just as much as they accuse us [men] for. So don't take it personally. They just weren't good enough for you. Where they stray, your Z will never stray. Unless someone else just happens to have your key fob frequency. :rofl2:

But in all seriousness, sorry to hear it (especially as a 4-peat). Just don't internalize it. It's not your fault or a difficiency in you that makes them unfaithful. It's them.

Time for more mods man! That will always help.

But just know they were not good enough for you so move on and find one that is good. One that will never do that to you.

I've never had a gf cheat on me. Your problem isn't a coincidence. You are dating girls that are not very good and or you're not giving these girls what they need. But yes the z will take your mind off things. Canadian girls are pretty awesome, I dated one for many years.

Yeah i know that it is 90% the choice/type of the girl i choose. Im into the wild ones, and to be honest, this time isnt a big surprise. She lied to me at the beginning of our relationship, but some things happened that made her stop. And now one of our mutual friends dropped the bomb on me and im still speechless. Now i gotta go home and try to act calm as i help her pack up.. I guess maybe its a sign of sort.. Maybe im time for me to grow up and start looking for other qualities than looks and fun in the bedroom (no offence to the female readers)

Stay away from the wild ones son. lol Trust me on that. I should know... Never again...

1. Well can't say much for that type, they're not ready to be mature and monogamous. So you have to take that with a grain of salt...

2. Lying from the beginning is a huge red flag, that is a pretty tale-tale sign it's not the same for her as it is for you. After that, I'd always be on alert for BS if I even kept them around...

3. You found out from a Friend..?? Have you confronted her about this and confirmed it? Maybe the friend is BSing you? Never know... :ugh2:

4. That's a definate point, not the best in bed is the best in person... there's a reason she's good in bed. She must be there a lot... :ugh2: (No offense meant)

Loyalty is a character trait. You need to get to know where a girl stands on this issue. Generarlly if she cheated on you, she had probably cheated before and it's in her nature so don't take it personally.

I would say the best advice would be to stop going after girls with crappy values and morales. There are plenty of smoking hot chicks who are loyal, you just have to be picky.

P.S. I have no idea the dynamic of your relationship but almost every guy friend of mine who kissed their girlfriends azzez ended up getting cheated on because their women didn't respect them, Act the man, don't be a jerk, but make sure you aren't running around like a hopeless puppy, that is a recipe to get hurt.

Oh also, if you guys argue, make sure you tell her you have done nothing wrong, but she has proven she is an unfaithful whore, so you're better off without her....

:iagree: Especially the wild ones that claim 'they wanna move on'. Cause they haven't got it all out of their system. It's not what they say, it's what they do.

Thats what my now ex-wife did. :shakes head:

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Once a cheater, always a cheater, unless they get cheated on first and feels how bad it hurts... then only then maybe will they change. :ugh2:

Yeah, i gotta agree on most of the above. Shes denying it to the bone, but now that ive actually asked around, 1 more person has confirmed. Shes also quietly packing up her stuff without putting up much of a fight about it. As far as our dynamics, ill tell the whole story at the next meet. I need some time to calm down about it. And Its going to be tough to find a "loyal" one in my circle of friends. But ill give it some time. A quick rebound has never been a good idea either.

Then don't date someone inside your [current] circle. Think outside the box circle in this case??

You live in the T.Dot..-Spring is in the Air and the ladies are on the prowl!.. You owe it to yourself to go out and slam as many ladies as possible... think of it as a second job:happydance:

Exactly what i shouldve done last time.

Go out side the circle!
There is no loyalty until some one cares about you, when the loyalty is gone everything is dead!

I find it oddly ominous that your name is reality. Lol

It usually works out better if you don't think about it. :bowrofl:

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Keep your head-up dude, things will get better and you will learn from this!

Girls like these, you need to be cold hearted and they won't phase you. Don't give your full 120% of yourself to any female cause once they know you have....they got you by the ballz and they can be evil! The day you find that right girl, you'll know when to give her your 120% .... personally, I'll never give my all to a girl cause you'll never know when they will snap. Dude, if you wanna chat, swing by the shop.

I was going to make a post about how you should do a bit of self examination, because you're doing something wrong, but it sounds like you already got a handle on it. You can't turn a whore into a housewife. You familiar with the story of the scorpion and the frog?

Phil: im trying to save up for those brakes lmao youll see me soon

@ frost: nope, its google time

Women are evil. Try a man!:p

The closest to a man ill ever get is my right hand :P

you have to look through the bad apples to find the one you want. just because it looks firm...its not always that way.

i had this gf that went crazy because i bought a new house and didnt put her name on it when she had no money to help with anything! i payed for everything but her car and her own clothing...and she wanted half of my house! and she didnt "live" with me...just stayed over 5 or 6 time per week...my world i see a lot of gold diggers...makes me sad! i too like the wild girls!

Damn it DJ you made me laugh so hard at work LOL

Anyways, forget those bitches. Enjoy your Z + mod it with the extra money you saved from ditching them.

You may then realize that 1 handbag = exhaust, 1 wallet = intake, 1 accessory = random mods.

At the end of the day, bitches will betray you, your Z will not.

lol. However, nothing beats sex! Not even the Z!

Given if the above analogy is true, then you should spend the extra money modding your Z, attract random wild girls, then HIT AND RUN.

Well.... when you get to be my age, a good dump is better than sex.:owned:

i have 370km on the Z and its in getting overhauled! picking her up thursday night! unsure of when my wheels will be in from Venaci?

Sorry to hear what you're going through, been there, really sucks.

To sum up what everyone's being saying in a few good cliches;

-All women are bitches, until they want something..... and then they're still bitches
-Gotta be mean to keep 'em Keen
-Beauty is only skin deep, but ugliness goes right to the bone
-You are the sum of your five closest friends



Cheers man, hope things turn around for you soon,
Cheech

:hello:

If I may go against the grain here.... I say you keep the modding to a minimum.. and use this summer to take advantage of all the ladies that will need your luv'n!!!:tiphat::happydance:

I'll throw in a quick update here. Sooo just like any good friend would, everyone is trying to hook me up left and right, but I'm broke *** (paying off debts...) and I really don't have a dating budget. So I was wondering if any of you guys have any good wallet-friendly ideas? My idea of a date usually was a dinner+movie, a day of go-karting, shopping trips, that kinda money hungry stuff. But unfortunately, I need to avoid this for the time being, or I'll sink back into the hole again.

And kudos to y'all, some ppl here dropped some great advice, n others just made me lol so hard. :D